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I see this as a bit a of shit test. Would double down to reply with "I like keeping fit , would you prefer a guy who get lazy and <fat / unfit / insert whatever is consistent with your vocabulary> instead?". There may be even better replies but this is the best I can think of at my basic skill level.
[6/19, 00:20] Tibor Barna: Hi Elaine, Tibor here
[6/19, 00:21] T Elaine: You move fast
[6/19, 00:21] Tibor Barna: 😎
[6/19, 00:21] T Elaine: Like a pawn, no game! 😬
[6/19, 00:22] Tibor Barna: I think I know how to deal with this brattynes of yours 🤔
[6/19, 00:22] T Elaine: Brattyness
[6/19, 00:22] T Elaine: Im just having fun
[6/19, 00:22] Tibor Barna: My point exactly
[6/19, 00:23] Tibor Barna: I will also have fun when I put you over my lap and give you the good hard spanking you seem like you need.
[6/19, 00:23] T Elaine: Well! Id prefer over the bed
[6/19, 00:24] Tibor Barna: Don't think you understand how this dom-sub thing works. 😂
[6/19, 00:24] T Elaine: I do!
[6/19, 00:24] Tibor Barna: I spank you where I want. Not where you want.
[6/19, 00:25] T Elaine: Well, maybe you’ll have to go find someone to spank over your lap
[6/19, 00:25] T Elaine: I like it in doggy
[6/19, 00:25] Tibor Barna: Ok .. I can work with that
[6/19, 00:25] Tibor Barna: Don't say I'm not flexible 😂
[6/19, 00:26] T Elaine: haha
[6/19, 00:26] T Elaine: Willing to please I see
[6/19, 00:26] Tibor Barna: I love pleasing actually
[6/19, 00:27] T Elaine: That is desirable
[6/19, 00:27] T Elaine: I like someone who enjoys that
[6/19, 00:27] Tibor Barna: We'll get along just fine then 😉
[6/19, 00:28] T Elaine: It seems that way!😜
[6/19, 00:28] Tibor Barna: So when are you free for some face to face banter?
[6/19, 00:31] T Elaine: When do you propose?
[6/19, 00:31] Tibor Barna: Monday works for me
[6/19, 00:31] T Elaine: My work week is diabolical
[6/19, 00:32] T Elaine: Id be lucky if I get a 10min lunch and an evening
[6/19, 00:32] T Elaine: Next week is crazy
[6/19, 00:32] Tibor Barna: So you tell me then. Would Sunday evening be good?
[6/19, 00:32] T Elaine: Would have to be play by ear
[6/19, 00:33] T Elaine: Sunday evening could work if early
[6/19, 00:33] T Elaine: Have to be fresh for mon
[6/19, 00:33] Tibor Barna: Early = ?
[6/19, 00:33] T Elaine: work first
[6/19, 00:33] T Elaine: 6ish
[6/19, 00:33] T Elaine: or 5ish even better
[6/19, 00:33] Tibor Barna: 7 can work on my end .. have some commitments already
[6/19, 00:34] Tibor Barna: Otherwise play by ear next week
[6/19, 00:35] T Elaine: Poss could do 7
[6/19, 00:35] T Elaine: But would need to confirm sun late morning...
[6/19, 00:36] Tibor Barna: Ok. Let's keep to this plan then
[6/19, 00:36] T Elaine: Cool
[6/19, 00:36] Tibor Barna: Will get back to my gym sets
[6/19, 00:36] Tibor Barna: 😜
[6/19, 00:36] T Elaine: mad
[6/19, 00:36] T Elaine: Im off to hed
[6/19, 00:36] T Elaine: Bed
[6/19, 00:36] T Elaine: enjoy
[6/19, 00:36] Tibor Barna: Sweet dreams 😉
[6/20, 13:11] Tibor Barna: My end is still on track for 7pm. I will keep you posted on how things develop. Best place to meet would be London Bridge.
[6/20, 13:18] T Elaine: Hey! Cool, will see how the day goes. Was probably thinking someplace fairly local (near to Chiswick/Hammersmith)🤭
[6/20, 13:19] Tibor Barna: Possible of course but it will drag out the timelines. 😉 Zone 1 is the golden middle.
[6/20, 14:51] T Elaine: So going to have to take a rain check! Im caught up with the family, so not going to make it this evening
[6/20, 14:55] Tibor Barna: Totally understand. Let's see how it goes during the week. 😉
[6/21, 16:37] Tibor Barna: I'm visiting a client in NW London today. Could stop by in Hammersmith on my way home if you happen to be free
[6/21, 18:55] T Elaine: Sorry, picked this msg up too late
[6/21, 19:08] Tibor Barna: Still at the client
[6/21, 19:08] Tibor Barna: Leaving now
[6/21, 19:32] T Elaine: Cant do today
[6/21, 19:33] Tibor Barna: No worries. Just worth checking. 😉
[6/21, 19:33] T Elaine: Im not sure Im really feeling this, may be best just to leave it. Sorry, have had a chance of heart
[6/21, 19:34] Tibor Barna: Ran out of witty banter? 🤔
[6/21, 21:38] Tibor Barna: Or my jokes scared you off to think I just crack jokes and don't have a deep / serious side?
Trying the upload again. Something funny with image compression by the forum. The original screenshot is high quality.
This is a good example of what I am dealing with. Is this just a time waster or am I working it the wrong way?
Thanks, will give that a go and report back.
What frame would that be? Even if I say I am looking for a meaningful connection from the get go (which is anyway true) it still doesn't make the meetup reluctance go away. It goes into endless chatting that goes nowhere. Really not sure how to approach this or where I should draw the line.
As with most things awkward, a good way to deal with it is to just laugh it off and then change the topic. Something like "whoops haha <laughing/crying emoji>" Move the conversation to something fun and flirty about her. Maybe ask is she has some sexy tattoos as well. Then regardless of the answer just move to some other generic topic about her. Like where is she from so you can then build back the conversation from there. Hope it helps.
I like 10 and 15.
19 is really good but crop to just above the belly button.
4 is really good to DHV with shibari would be great if you had one that was more zoomed out. The facial expression feels a bit too focused. Might help to try with a more playful smirk. This one would be great to stage it in a context where you appear to be teaching it to others. Needs more thought.
Number 2 is the best in my view.