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This post is about the challenges, hopefully we can come up with ways to address them.
The issue is that most of the text game flow from the blue-print and majority of the YouTube breakdowns do not seem to work for this type of girls. Why bother? This is a particular physical type of girl (usually very skinny) which may be of special interest to certain PWF members. Certainly is for me. Since this is the diametrical opposite of Alex's type, it got, understandably, little attention.
In a nutshell it seems near impossible to get these girls out on a date where game can be applied for a subsequent close. My experience is with girls in late 20s early 30s, who have been living in London for a number of years so not FOB material, but they seem to act exactly like it. Some girls will have fairly provocative photos so there seems to be a degree of DTF-ness deep down beneath all the layers of objections and insecurities.
Patterns observed from 20+ interactions:
It may be the case that these girls, no matter how many of them and how much they would fit a desired type are all simply write-offs for online game. Alternatively there may be some text game that can break down their concerns to get them on dates where hopefully some will close after maybe a second date. I would like some thoughts on this.
Stuff I considered but have not tried yet:
Thanks for reading and please feed back on how you see this topic and the specific issues raised.
A girl needing to know you better means there's an unaddressed frame you need to set. That usually has to do with hookups and chemistry.
What frame would that be? Even if I say I am looking for a meaningful connection from the get go (which is anyway true) it still doesn't make the meetup reluctance go away. It goes into endless chatting that goes nowhere. Really not sure how to approach this or where I should draw the line.
I would make it a goal to get them on a phone call then. The frame may have to do with parental and societal pressures
Show them some 4000 years old Chinese love