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I met this girl when I first started online dating 2 months ago. We went out once but then she friendzoned me, not surprised I didn't know how to date back then. I decided to hangout with her as friends while going on other dates. Haven't talked to her for about a month, and decided to msg her today. What should I say next.
me: "Hey, wanna grab drinks this week?" her: "ooo I'll have to see" her: "I can do tonight maybe" me: "i'm out until 8, does 8:30 or 9 work for you?" her: "where" me: "why don't we have some wine at my place" silence... She stopped responding when I asked her to my place. This was the third time we were gonna hangout. I've only been using hinge for 1.5 months and every time I asked a girl back to my place they just ghost, if it's during the date they ghost after, if it's over text as soon as I ask they stop responding no matter how well things go.
Most of my app convos are short like this before I get their #. Does it matter if you build rapport in the app or over text? Also any ideas on how to respond? Should I push for her to qualify herself by saying something like "hmm should I tho" or go for the close/get her # first.
Context: already went out once. She seemed eager to set up another date asap. Then bam flaked last minute. I definitely fked up with my last msg, but I don't think that warrants a flake. She is very much a prude, which is why I waited until 2nd date. Should I call out and ask if she's nervous about something happening?