Comments by Gilmar Y

I replied: "Some short term nocturnal studies to see if a more comprehensive longer study is needed"
her: some stuff about that's not how she does things and asks if I'm like this with every girl
me: "So how do you like to do things? I like to build chemistry with a girl first before anything else" <- I think this was a bad reply
her: "Idk lol. I just wanted to be friends"
me: "Let's take it slow and see where it goes. I'm not interested in being just friends"
her: " yeah let's get to know each other as ppl first. It sounded liked you just wanted to get into my pants"
me: didn't reply for 5 hrs
her: "for one I'd be down to smoke and chill"
me: "Awesome, I'm glad we're on the same page. I'm def down to smoke and chill with you"

Not sure where this puts me but at least I'm out of the friendzone.

Yeah we kissed and made out on dates before, with other girls I can tell if they're interested with some accuracy but with her it feels like a coin flip. Not really sure how I should proceed here, re open, takeaway, or just straight up ask again- but this time somewhere public.

Well I can't change what I said after I said it... Hindsight is always 20/20, I'm asking what I should do now. I'm leaning towards just asking her what she's looking for b/c I feel like based on our interactions so far she might just be a timewaster, aka will go out but only for the validation.

Attached, like I said my convos are pretty short, and I have trouble building rapport/attraction over text.

The one thing I'm confused about is why she was so invested yesterday but suddenly changes her mind in < 24hrs. First time I've encountered this type of 100 to 0 behavior in such a short amount of time.