I think I need more compliance for a close. (I'm 23, she's 19, so no wine date) but I was thinking: 1) "Same... so give me the basics, felonies? tattoos? homebody or partygirl?" 2) "Same though that's better done person. Down to go out sometime?" 3) Any other options?
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Normally I’d do the usual close but she seems medium interest only. Like I got her to invest a bit more (she’s writing longer messages) but she hasn’t asked much about me. I only translated second pic where I soft closed. We’re in the U.S. btw, just speaking Spanish. 2nd PIC TRANSLATION: Me: I get you, though for me it was the other way. I used to go clubs and party then I realized that’s not my thing. Anyway, what’s your poison? I’m sure a lot of tequila in the clubs right haha Her: Well whatever comes my way hahaha Me: Haha cool then how about we go for a drink one of these days Her: Yeah for sure (emoji) Me: Ok, when are you free this week Her: Ummm well probably not until the weekend Me: perfect we’ll see what’s up this weekend
Did ya'll watch the Caleb Jones lives stream? Not to be a dick but his wife is definitely below average (soft 4, at best) and yet he has posts describing her like this: "She’s blonde, trim, super hot, and what most men would consider a 9 or 10 unless you don’t like blonde white women." The last pic is slightly better but even then she actually looks nothing like that. Alex I'm surprised you didn't agree in the Youtube comments, all of the girls in your LR's are infinitely better. If he finds her attractive fine but the worst part in his video with her (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppK_D_AFzWI&t=283s) he has very "beta" energy. She looks at him with contempt, unlike the girls Alex features in his videos which actually seem engaged and happy to be there. Alex has mentioned he knows which guys have game based, at least partly, on their quality of women so I just found it surprising. Any thoughts?
She doesn't seem very invested but she's mentioned before that he finds me attractive. I'm trying to get the facetime to close the date. I thought of "Only the cool kids. Shoot your number and we'll set it up" I also thought of "I prefer it. If you're not actually a 300lb old mexican guy shoot your number and we'll set it up"
Tried to make her qualify at the end but too gamey. Like that last text should've been "hmm are you a naughty passenger?" Or maybe "hmm are you a 5 star rider?" Thoughts? How can I reopen?
Critique my texting. She seemed interested at first but I kinda lost it. What's the best way to reopen? My ideas: Option 1 - "Did you save my number with 🔥 and ❤️️ around it?" Option 2 - "Are you always this talkative?"
Is "ur buying" a shit test or is she being playful? What's a high value response here?
Help with 40 yr old MILF. I know it's early but I want to set up a good vibe for the rest of the conversation. Any tips on calibrating correctly? Option 1: "Pretty busy and yours? Partying hard I presume..." Option 2: "I've been pretty busy, perhaps you can be my distraction" Option 3: "Just got done with a killer work out, looking nice and fit our wine date"
Did this come across weird? I was going to reopen with "do you prefer dad bods or what?"
I probably could have played it smoother, what now? I was thinking "I don't usually match with good innocent girls like you. You seem super sweet, but I tend to match with party girls with a wild side" I think it would be better to have her invest more first, though
