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Normally I’d do the usual close but she seems medium interest only. Like I got her to invest a bit more (she’s writing longer messages) but she hasn’t asked much about me. I only translated second pic where I soft closed. We’re in the U.S. btw, just speaking Spanish.
2nd PIC TRANSLATION:
Me: I get you, though for me it was the other way. I used to go clubs and party then I realized that’s not my thing. Anyway, what’s your poison? I’m sure a lot of tequila in the clubs right haha
Her: Well whatever comes my way hahaha
Me: Haha cool then how about we go for a drink one of these days
Her: Yeah for sure (emoji)
Me: Ok, when are you free this week
Her: Ummm well probably not until the weekend
Me: perfect we’ll see what’s up this weekend
Es mejor hacer planes exactos cuando una chica dice k tiene un dia libre en ese momento. Mejor seguir el soft close con el hard close. Ahorra, solo tienes k aprender cual noche seria mejor
Damn that's true. I should've said something like "Hmm in that case I'm free Friday if you're down"
I feel girls tend to dislike vague texts like the last one I sent. We'll see what happens I guess
Exactly. I've made this mistake a bunch so I get it. When Alex says "guys get lazy on the close" this is what he's talking about
You didn't hard close properly and you should have established solid plans much earlier than today. You should have re-engaged on Wednesday and solidified plans
True I learned my lesson, I just didn't want to appear pushy. Is there a way to save this? Just texted her "What's up how's your week going"