On Monday I soft closed for weekend, how to do hard close tomorrow?

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Normally I’d do the usual close but she seems medium interest only. Like I got her to invest a bit more (she’s writing longer messages) but she hasn’t asked much about me. I only translated second pic where I soft closed. We’re in the U.S. btw, just speaking Spanish.

2nd PIC TRANSLATION:

Me: I get you, though for me it was the other way. I used to go clubs and party then I realized that’s not my thing. Anyway, what’s your poison? I’m sure a lot of tequila in the clubs right haha

Her: Well whatever comes my way hahaha

Me: Haha cool then how about we go for a drink one of these days

Her: Yeah for sure (emoji)

Me: Ok, when are you free this week

Her: Ummm well probably not until the weekend

Me: perfect we’ll see what’s up this weekend

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39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)

Es mejor hacer planes exactos cuando una chica dice k tiene un dia libre en ese momento. Mejor seguir el soft close con el hard close. Ahorra, solo tienes k aprender cual noche seria mejor

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Damn that's true. I should've said something like "Hmm in that case I'm free Friday if you're down"

I feel girls tend to dislike vague texts like the last one I sent. We'll see what happens I guess

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39 Posts (+8), 697 Cmts (+226)

Exactly. I've made this mistake a bunch so I get it. When Alex says "guys get lazy on the close" this is what he's talking about

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You didn't hard close properly and you should have established solid plans much earlier than today. You should have re-engaged on Wednesday and solidified plans

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32 Posts (+14), 84 Cmts (+20)

True I learned my lesson, I just didn't want to appear pushy. Is there a way to save this? Just texted her "What's up how's your week going"

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