Comments by Sam James

Solid call mate. I like the plan moving forward.

I find it difficult in a situation where she's gaming you (combined with the odd shit test) to have the right balance between being indifferent to let her continue to game you and build the frame that you're the prize vs taking control without coming across as needy. I think that's what I descended to in those last few texts. So do you have any advice on how I could have taken more control at which point in the above chain?

Thanks, Alex. I did ask but she said she just thought we were different personalities and that whilst we get on, that it wouldn't work in the long term.

Not really an awful lot out her there. Chalk it up as war's hell, build up my resilience and move on?

Honestly, after our last session maybe. Or sometime during the night...

I mean you wouldn't just fuck someone if you felt that way right? Or am I being woefully naive and have I just been used for sex, basically?