yeah, so i don't really see an issue in the way you set up the date through text, so the issue isn't with that. It's most likely with how you handled the date itself, or an issue the girl had herself that you have no control of. i'd likely bet on the prior though, plus it gives you opportunity to look at how you could have ran it better.
With the context given, it honestly could have been many different issues. In these cases, it's hard to tell without have been there in person to witness it. But it could be
- How you verbally built comfort, talked, and escalated with her.
- Not properly physically escalating during the date, including all the subtleties (eye contact, tonality, pace that you talk, closing the proximity, touching, etc)
- Giving up or getting the wrong impression because of 1 negative indicator. 2 steps forward, 1 step back. But don't stop moving.
In the unlikely hood of it being something with her, it could have been - She just didn't find you that attractive
- She was dealing with issues / hormone issues / something had happened
- She is just a very slow cooker, some girls need much more time to warm up to you, typically the more attractive they are. (Not always the case)
- She was on her period