Comments by Vlad Vostok

Hey trouble! Yeah, I've seen your videos multiple time by now, glad you pitched in. I'll definitely try going a lil bit slower, I'm feeling too gamey right now going for the sexual vibes and the kill too fast.
Funny I was just watching one of your videos "LIVE Text Game Demonstration - Texting Examples of Flirting & Banter", I don't remember having watched. It shows you in a much more relaxed vibe, having "normal talk" for the most part with chicks. For some reason I thought you were pretty much always going balls to the walls lol.
I'll try and emulate that.

Almost 24h lol

So, I texted her this afternoon with "If you're too nervous, I'd understand" (I know I know, not 48h), and no reply.

This pretty much sums up the reason of this thread. Girls go from "yeah I'll meet at your place for a hookup tomorrow" to totally ghosting with no reason I can point out to. wtf

Oh I'm sorry I didn't expand the post. So, what happened?

I'd just chill. She's probably busy handling flyers and shit. Another text will sound needy and won't change anything I guess.

Hey, thanks for the help, bruh. But I'm not sure I get your tips.
First one, do you mean I should say "Breaking my heart 'insert her name'"?

Second one, how am I gonna say "Cool,text me otw" if I don't set a date beforehand?

I'll do my best because I'm Brazilian so it's in Portuguese.

So, just as an example, the chick I matched/talked yesterday on tinder. Seems pretty DTF with pics on bikini and bare boobs covered by her hair etc. (I have a pretty fuckboi profile with handcuffs in one of the photos and stuff like "BDSM aficionado" on bio.

It starts like this:

Me: Hey sexy. How are you doing?
Her: I'm fine, how bout you?
Me: Just chilling at home, relaxing my beauty for our romantic date.
Her: I must confess I lol'd 'laughing emoji'
Good, save yourself for our romantic date.
Me: I'm going to the park tomorrow and do some pullups and pushups and stay fit for it. Do you have a date in mind?
Her: wow, such a dedicated man. I knew I didn't deserve anything les than that.
Look, depending on the time, my days are very chill.
Me: No doubt, my six-pack is coming so you can wash your panties on it.
Tomorrow is a holiday, what do you think?
Her: That's just what I needed, a six-pack so I can wash my panties.
What time? I need to buy some clothes and take some pictures for my graduation. It can only be at night.
Me: End of the day or at night is ideal for me. I'll be going to a barbecue tomorrow.
Shoot me your whatsapp so we can make plans.
Her: 'number'

Over whatsapp:

Me: Hey, your "washing machine" here :) (talking about that six-pack thing and her washing her panties)
Her: Heyyy, Miss Maria here who is going to wash the clother 'lol emoji'
Me: Hey, Miss Maria, have you got the laundry tokens?
Her: Laundry tokens?
Me: So you can use the washing machine, have you never lived in a condominium? lol (the banter was kinda weird, hope you can understand. She was also taking longer to answer than on the app).
Her: Never 'some weird emoji'
I didn't know I needed tokens, how can I get them?
Me: I'll tell you tomorrow during our romantic date with wine and sensual music.
Her: 'some weird emoji'. (felt like not a great response.)
Me: 'confused emoji'
Her: I loved the sensual music part.
Me: Right? Maybe I will do some strip tease for you if you deserve it.
Her: 'little girl gif written "I like it"'
Me: How does 19h sound to you?
Her: It's better at 20h so I will not be late. I don't like to keep ppl waiting.
Me: Wow, this is rare nowadays! 20h it is ;)
End of conversation.

Today at 14:30

Me: Hey, did you find your sexy outfit for the graduation?
Her: Hi, I didn't have time, there was an unforeseen event and I had to get back to the coast. (We are 1h from beaches here.)
Me: Damn. So I guess our romantic date is postponed, right?
Her: (3 hours later at 18h)Unfortunately yes, 'crying emoji'
Me: You are breaking my heart. The candles were already lit.

No fking response.

Thank you! I've tried meditation in the past but had little patience(lol) for it. I'll try again.