Patience! Please, teach me how you do it?

I lose so many easy lays because of my lack of patience. Like, really, girls with whom I talk dirty and they are receptive, but then they start throwing the usual curve balls (ghosting, one liners response, single emojis, flaking, silly concerns etc.) and I just lose it. When I'm in a very good mood and with a few women around already, I kinda take it better, but usually I lack a LOT of patience. Does anyone have any tips on how to work this in myself? It always feel like I have to eat their shit so they give me the pleasure of their company and it just doen't sit well with me...