She’s toying u around. You’ve been handling it quite well tho. However, I do think she’s a time waster
She’s toying u around. You’ve been handling it quite well tho. However, I do think she’s a time waster
Man you need to stop with the “nice guy attitude” saying “no worries” “I understand..” less emojis. You need to go over some pull and push dynamics. From the texts it seems that you’re rewarding her flaking so since you’re “fine” with it she’s slowly losing respect. I’d wait a week or so and re-engage her.
It’s definitely the pics man. The first one has a nice background but your body language(hands in pockets) kinda makes you seem insecure, 2nd pic is a bad one. 3rd we can’t even see your face and is kinda of random pic. 4th pic is your best. 5th take a nice pic with your dog together.
Update: she replied back with a meme(see pic)... so now that she replied back I can work with something. My question what to say next: will a “ah she lives” suffice or???
I re-engaged with the skeleton meme last Monday. No reply since then... I’m thinking waiting two weeks and hitting her with the “if your not into this..” it’s weird because we had such great chemistry in the previous dates. But like Alex says, keeping that abundance mentality and not an scarcity one helps.
Thank you Alex! I was thinking the same thing, I wanted to build investment but definitely didn’t work. What would you have said instead ? (For future reference)
Been there man. It’s an ego question, when dealing with girls you gotta put your ego in check. Remember girls are emotional beings, there’s a variety of reasons why she flaked. Like others suggested wait a week or so and Re-engage
Hey man, I was having a similar issue before. The cure, stop watching porn it honestly fucks with your psychology and it’s weird how your body internalizes stuff. As a result, when you’re about to get it on, it doesn’t work and is awfully frustrating and discouraging (for me). I got rid of that and also tried to clean my feed to not see these models all the time. Haven’t had an issue since then... it’s all psychological, also apparently doing keggel exercises helps with the blood flow. Don’t over stress just “talk” to your body, you got this.
“Okay Lmk” then she’s either going to engage you or you gonna have to re-engage her after the weekend.
Thanks bro, I went with the above and she just said “good idea”. Going to wait until next week and make plans for next weekend