Am I Cooked Or How Do I Deal With This Concern
Context: we hang out once, got ice cream at a spot called Andy’s, she wasn’t really making any romantic moves but committed to this date after once before saying she never wanted to hang w me one on one. After she said “that’s actually my only joke” I said “dw, I’ll teach you a few more on our next romantic trip to Andy’s” and then had to use that takeaway. I WOULD just say “when did I say we’d do anything romantic” to reframe it and get her to question her assumption, but I did say “a romantic trip” so I’m seeing there’s some kinda underlying concern I just don’t know how to address it here @avilench .