My double text was about 6 hours apart.
My double text was about 6 hours apart.
SMILE for one. It looks like you're depressed. Girls want to be around someone who is fun and looks like they're having a good time. The only one of your photos I see that in is the one of your camping with your mates, and even in that one you're barely smiling.
If you were face to face with this girl, would you ask her multiple questions in a row and expect her to answer them all? Carry your texts like you would a dialogue. Not too much push, not too much pull.
Maybe's it's a generational thing, but ASK the girl for her number, don't just give her yours. By asking, you're obtaining consent to take it to the next level. That, and it shows that you are confident in being given what you ask for, shows dominance. Giving your phone number makes you seem weak. "Here's my number, do with it what you will." That's been my observation over the years. Also, don't downgrade by going for IG when you clearly brought up phone numbers.
Never say you're being "lazy af", makes you sound boring. Girls don't want a boring guy. Plus, it's kind of hard to build off of being lazy and turning into something inviting.
Oh, just now seeing that you've seen that vid. Don't ask questions that everyone probably asks her. That would be boring and doesn't lead the conversation the direction you want it to go. Ask probing questions that lead down the road to them opening up. Topics like, how adventurous they are, what their biggest fantasies are, what are their biggest turn ons, stuff like that. Be direct, most girls appreciate that. Weeds out the time wasters too.
Alex put up a YouTube vid about this exactly. I'll post it if I find it.
Yes. Set a date with her last weekend, she flaked. Gave her another opportunity, she flaked again. Asked her "how are you going to make it up to me?", no response so she's been discarded.
You've got to figure out what you value more in your world. Do you want to just have fun and slay as much as you can? Or are you the kind of guy that wants a LTR? Also, you have to LISTEN, and PICK UP on cues that a girls gives you. If this girl hasn't changed, then she's probably not going to change just for you if you want to hook up, she's probably going to be looking for an LTR. BTW, when you're that young, the girls who are easy aren't nearly as quality as the ones that it takes some level of investment to get with. They usually pay off better on the back end, too.
Key difference in what Alex's says on this video is a generalization about all the guys she's dated previously, not one specific person.