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PWF, I hate social media. Like, it pains me to put anything together and post it. Something about perfection anxiety. Instead of having a shitty IG, should I scrap and delete it? Or can I make up for the lack of habitual posts with my charm and stories? I am active, I just never take pictures.
I submit to you, this opener! I opened with “You look like just my type” and this is the response I got.
Searching the forums for a jaw-dropping response I remember one of the guys posting on here (think it was Alex or Indian PE). Something along the lines of, "You're use to dating beta guys who are little bitches and are terrible at satisfying you. What you really want is a guy who will dominate you... etc, etc." Any one help me out and remind me of the context? I think it would work well with a girl I've been flaked on recently after some good sexts back and forth.
This happens every once in a while.... when you open and "like" a girl on hinge with one of the patented openers, this time "You look like my type", and they match but don't say anything, what's the play? Respond with, "If you're a shy girl, something something..." or you tell me? Wait some period of time before responding?
Backstory: Saw on my good guy friend's (moved to another state, is in a serious LT relationship) IG an 8.5-9 that kept commenting on his pictures. I asked my friend who she was and if I could name drop him when I slid into her DMs. He said of course, he'd back me up, he even reached out to her to say how awesome I am. We exchanged DMs back and forth for a few days, then got her number, texted back and forth another few days, then things stopped. This was back in November. Thought I'd reach out to her again last week, and set a time up for drinks for this evening (planned 4 days in advance). Fast forward to today, she texts me an hour ago saying that something has come up w/ work and she has to postpone our first meeting. I'm bummed, but I haven't responded or opened the message yet. What's the play here? What's the likelihood this is a shit test as opposed to a real life bump in the road?
As the title says, matched with an 8 on Hinge after opening one of her pictures with the infamous “Hey trouble” opener. She matched back with me, but didn’t respond with anything. How long would you wait before responding back and with what line?
Basically the title. Girls have their IG posted on their Tinder/Bumble/whatever. What are some success stories you’ve had where you circumvented not matching on dating apps and slid into her DMs and made a connection? Best openers? How to close any different than on dating apps?
