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So I need some advice on how to initiate and then close on this one girl.
First, for context, I’m 19 and fresh off my first year of college. I’m currently back in my hometown living with my dad and he is 60 years old and literally always home. He gets mad at me for hanging out with people so I’ve been literally sneaking girls into my house through the window to get by (at like 2 in the morning), The sneaking in thing has yielded mixed results because sometimes it’s made girls uncomfortable and they’re never willing to do it more than two times. It’s also a huge hassle and commitment and I end up not getting any sleep.
Now that I’ve set the context, there is one girl who I went to high school with who I have wanted to fuck since I was 16. She’s back in town for the summer and I would approach it like any other girl save for she’s one of those super pure types that doesn’t do hook ups. When we were in high school, we always had a thing for each other but she had a boyfriend and when she finally broke up with him, I’d already made the terrible mistake of getting into a long term relationship myself. So because of this, me and this girl stopped talking, but the few times we did interact, there was clearly still tension. So I’ve barely spoken to this girl in the last 9 months and am considering FaceTiming her but was wondering how I should open/initiate? Next up, I was wondering if I could get any tips on ways to meet up with girls in a setting where they’d be dtf without sneaking them in my house? This girl doesn’t seem like the type do be down to just fuck in my car so I’d appreciate some pointers on ways to maneuver around my obstacles. I only ask because I really badly want to pull this girl and it’s important to my 16 year old self that I do this.
Her dad's also old asf and there's no way I'd be able to just go to her place.
Hm I would start off by reingaging her in general “guess where I am” then if she’s also in the same time as you get the convo going again, do some call back humor, etc then you can go for the meet up
In terms of where to pull her it sounds like you really don’t have a choice aside from sneaking her in to your place so I would just go with that
Hope this helps man
You've got to figure out what you value more in your world. Do you want to just have fun and slay as much as you can? Or are you the kind of guy that wants a LTR? Also, you have to LISTEN, and PICK UP on cues that a girls gives you. If this girl hasn't changed, then she's probably not going to change just for you if you want to hook up, she's probably going to be looking for an LTR. BTW, when you're that young, the girls who are easy aren't nearly as quality as the ones that it takes some level of investment to get with. They usually pay off better on the back end, too.
Idk how serious this is " it’s important to my 16 year old self that I do this."
But if you are willing to pay $ then you can always airbnb/hotel
Also lol at sneaking girls through a window at 2am, how did that play out
