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Question about framing dates to the house

Quick question. With my profile, I rarely get away with framing dates to the house, because I attract more relationship type girls. I am looking for something long term, but of course I also like to have sex. What I've been doing is simply scheduling a date at a boba tea place, chicks love those for some reason, and of the vibe is up I'll ask her what she has going on after that. If she's free and tells me she has her own place, I'll basically invite myself back to her house and we'll fuck. I'm wondering, though, in case I catch the girls off guard, if it would be better to suggest going back to her place before we even meet up (because I don't have my own right now.) Basically, my thoughts would be that I get to the soft close "we should grab a cup sometime" and when she agrees to that, say "cool, and if the chemistrys good we can hang out after". Would it be a good idea to include this after or should I continue just taking them for coffee and proposing we go home in the middle of the date? And how would you improve the line? I haven't tested this much yet so I'm curious

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How should I have responded to this?

"Hey, I wanted to be honest with you. I felt a bit uncomfortable with the physical touch on our first date. it was a bit more than I was okay with, especially so early on. I wish you the best but i just was not comfortable moving that fast. its nothing you did wrong and I should’ve vocalized that to you but I didn’t know how." For context, literally all I did was hold her thigh in the car and kiss her with her permission

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How to reduce this situation

I'm 20. I'm on summer break and don't have my own place yet, although I'll be able to get one son because I've been saving I often run into situations like this one, two days ago: have a date with a girl, she is super responsive to all escalating, I kiss her a few times, then I have to drop her off for the night because both of us are in college and on summer break and I can't bring her to my parents place or hers. She leaves and says she has a really great time. Then I never see or hear from her ever again. In this case, I waited a day after the date and texted offering to go to a place we'd talked about on the first date. She hasn't responded for a day so I followed up with "or would you prefer something more unique" because she mentioned liking new and unique travel experiences. This woman was extremely beautiful. A model that travels the world with a lot of wealth. I did get to kiss her and escalate in a lot of other ways, which was nice, but I don't think I'll ever hear from her again. Usually when a girl goes a couple days without interacting after a date, she's done with the guy. Basically, how can I prevent this when I'm in no position to fuck her that night?

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This keeps happening

I get a girl to have a very compliant chat. We soft close a date which she agrees to. Then I ask for her number. And very, very often, I don't hear from them for a day or two. The text I use after the soft close is literally just "cool, what's your #? we can set a date" nothing fancy. Anyway, if I haven't heard from them in a day or 2 I'll just send "?" as a follow up. Then they unmatch This doesn't happen with every girl. Some give out there number just fine. But I don't understand why they're so compliant and flirty and then when I actually go for the number they disappear. Do I really need to wait like 3 days before following up? Also if it's important, I'm 20. So a lot of the girls I go for are 18-22. Are younger girls more hesitant to giving out their numbers?

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What do I do in this situation

Basically had a date with this girl, we made out in my car at the end. I couldn't pull her back to the house because she is currently taking care of her grandmother. I liked her, she seemed attracted to me and texted me right after the date saying she had a lovely time I invited her out again, she said yes. However, when I tried to set a time she randomly just says that she is too busy now with family stuff and she'll text me if she finds the time for a date. I responded saying I'm sure we could find an hour if we wanted and she again responded saying that she will text me if she has the time. This was over a week and a half ago. The lead is going cold and I have no idea how to salvage this

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Date flakes

Lately, my ability to get numbers and set dates has improved. Theres a decent few girls however, who will be super flirty and compliant throughout the entire process, set dates, express excitement to meet, respond to the confirmation text of "just checking in, today still work?" With yes. And then, an hour before the date, they block my number or unmatch me on the apps. They don't give any objection. They're super agreeable and into the conversation, and then they disappear an hour before we agreed to meet up. I'm not exactly sure if there's any general rules to follow to limit these situations. The way my texting goes is I open, flirt, tease a date, confirm the date, and then usually the girl and I meet up. I have girls with very low investment that still show up. I don't have all the receipts because I've been blocked, but just know that it was 100% compliance all the way through with no shit tests. Any advice? Do I need to text more to build comfort? Or are these situations unavoidable. I'd say this happens with 1/5 or 1/6 numbers

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What to do about tinder shadowban?

I made a tinder account last summer that got over 100 likes in my small area. I went through a breakup recently and opened another account. Same pictures on a different phone number. I barely get any likes now. Is there a reason for that? Do I need to change them?

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Translate this girl breakup text

I've been dating this girl for 6 months. Met her entire family, went on vacation, had passionate sex countless times. We broke up as soon as she came to the college I'm at for the semester. My guess is a mix between having so many options and stress because we had been fighting. I had gotten a random testicular infection after being faithful and made the mistake of pressing her about it. I asked if she'd cheated. She was already a very stressed girl, on anti depression medicine. This caused her to cry a lot. She also told me that her and her mom 'had a talk about how I care too much about money at an early age'. And she was angry with me because I've been focusing on my business and not going out to parties with her. I think she genuinely cared for me because she was in tears when talking about it, and I'd been deeply, deeply intimate with her for months. But anyway, here's some of the things she said in the breakup text 'now just isn't the right time for us' 'ever since my mom and I talked things haven't felt the same' 'I feel like you can find someone better' 'I want to be with you but I just don't think it's going to work ' These all seem like basic 'let him down easy' texts, but I'm confused because we were together for months, I genuinely was working on my business and being productive like a man should, and I wasn't a pushover that did whatever she wanted. My guess is that when she got back to campus she was stressed out because of the drama, didn't want to communicate to reach an agreement, and was surrounded by options. What should I have done? Should I have set aside my purpose to go get drunk at parties with her? Or was this an unavoidable conflict of interest given the drama and differences in our priorities. I tried to talk her through it like an adult and say that we need to both express our needs and listen to better understand each other but she didn't listen. Just dumped me. She also never once said anything like 'my needs aren't being met' until it was too late

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College breakup advice

I was with a woman for many months before college started. We had love. We would spend time together and go on vacations etc. One day. I started a YouTube content creation business. I invested a lot of time into it. 7 hours a day. She said she felt neglected. I spent more time with her and came up with a way to better divide my work. When I spent more time with her, she said I was too clingy. This drama only started after I created my business. I expected her to support my passion. And the business is successful so far. I am bringing in money. She says I care too much about money and not enough about having fun. Now that college has started, she wants to break up. My guess is she wants to fling around. I'm very hurt by this. We were together for a long time. I can't really understand what turned her off so quickly. She can't give me an answer either. I'm past the point in life where I want a party girl or hook-ups. I want a woman to be with. Does anyone have any advice on healing? Finding the right woman?

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Help with Tinder pics

With this profile I get maybe 1-3 likes a week if I'm lucky so I'm sure there's a lot of room for improvement. Any advice? For additional context I'm 10.5% bodyfat, 18, and unfortunately only 5'8. I have the pictures of me on the toy car and with the weird customer from work because I think they're funny, but maybe I should replace those because others might not think so. Any suggestions are appreciated because I think I've improved my looks a good bit over the last year and would like to capitalize on that

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