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I get a girl to have a very compliant chat. We soft close a date which she agrees to. Then I ask for her number. And very, very often, I don't hear from them for a day or two. The text I use after the soft close is literally just "cool, what's your #? we can set a date" nothing fancy. Anyway, if I haven't heard from them in a day or 2 I'll just send "?" as a follow up. Then they unmatch
This doesn't happen with every girl. Some give out there number just fine. But I don't understand why they're so compliant and flirty and then when I actually go for the number they disappear. Do I really need to wait like 3 days before following up? Also if it's important, I'm 20. So a lot of the girls I go for are 18-22. Are younger girls more hesitant to giving out their numbers?
Here's the entire interaction
Me: been looking for a cute gym buddy (based on her profile)
Her: hmm well this could work then
Me: so gimme the basics. Tattoos? Major? Good kisser?
Her: 2 tattoos, biology, and a great kisser
Me: sounds like our date will be fun then ;)
Her: Oooo yea?
Me: for sure. Do you prefer coffee or smoothies
Her: Smoothies. I hate coffee.
Me: we should grab smoothies together soon
Her: yes we should
Me: cool, what's your number? We can set a date
Waits a day
Me: ?
And then she unmatched. I'm just very confused because she was so agreeable
what percentage of the time approximately does this happen? i would say up to 30% is normal. younger girls tend to be more flakey.
Yea, probably about 20-30%. I get a lot of girls to meet up and some opportunities fall through for other reasons I haven't mastered yet, such as first dates. The girl in question this time was only 19
yeah man thats totally normal especially for that age range. you just make up for that by doing higher volume.
