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Basically had a date with this girl, we made out in my car at the end. I couldn't pull her back to the house because she is currently taking care of her grandmother.
I liked her, she seemed attracted to me and texted me right after the date saying she had a lovely time
I invited her out again, she said yes. However, when I tried to set a time she randomly just says that she is too busy now with family stuff and she'll text me if she finds the time for a date.
I responded saying I'm sure we could find an hour if we wanted and she again responded saying that she will text me if she has the time.
This was over a week and a half ago. The lead is going cold and I have no idea how to salvage this
yea man, this is straight forward. this is cause you didnt close on the 1st date. if you dont close on the 1st date, you almost never get a second chance.
If her grandma was sick, you shouldve pulled back to yours. If that wasnt an option, you should have banged her in the car. where there is a will theres a way, as they say.
I'll chalk it to that she just isn't that into me. I tried to pull to the house after but there's really no good counter objection to "my grandma has nobody else to take care of her" lol
i would have said something like "an extra 30 mins wont kill grandma" but yes sometimes these things are out of your control.