I definitely agree. I do have some limiting beliefs I need to work on with it.
I definitely agree. I do have some limiting beliefs I need to work on with it.
Bro you sound lazy in all of this. You went out of your way to drive that distance to not be hungry at all for your dessert. It all starts with your own horniness. You gotta be hungry for it. The girl will feel that energy. If you ain't aroused, it's gonna be hard to get yourself excited to want to move it forward. I think that's what happened here. You had your lack of attraction & hence lack of arousal combined with your desire to lose your virginity that were competing with each other & hence your lack of attraction and arousal winning since it didn't drive you to do anything or elicit any excitement in your body to want to just pounce on your prey & close.
That ain’t the opener I was referring to ;)
It's out here somewhere. & The opener you see here is the one I used.
Why do you say that? What's that have to do with this though. I just wasn't into the girl from the jump once she got to my place
& Yeah I don't think I'm a seasoned dominant man in person at all but then again I have no model of what that actually looks like to base off of either. Just loaded language of what you should say & stuff
Tell me, how exactly did I put her on a pedestal & came across needy
Me: All good, enjoy your trip. When do you get back
Her: Silence
Me: Question marks my text since she didn't answer
Her: Nope I’m in Atlanta rn
Her: Hits me up once she's back in town
Me: We should celebrate
Her: Lol ohhh shall we?
Me: Indeed we shall. When are you free
Her: Silence
Me: Re-engage
Her: I’ve been busy, I’m leaving to SF this Sat, I’m not sure, I’ll let you know
All of it just reads as disinterest to me. That’s two instances of trying to move things forward that she gave me silence to & then when I re-engaged yesterday third time another instance of silence with no effort to make us meeting again bro.
Isn't the goal to get the second meet in as soon as possible though? I don't think she's interested anymore unfortunately. Just sudden interest level drop even when I re-engaged with the Justin meme.
I thought we had a good time & she was at my place until 3 in the morning. It was good sex but nothing too crazy or out there. I personally really enjoyed her personality, she had a great sense of humor. I'd probably put it at 6.5 to 7/10. I'm obviously biased though
She actually came over last night. A friend & I were on the phone last night and we were joking about how I should send her a link to BDSM collars and say "Hey I'm curious, which one of these do you like?" & She responded almost instantly saying we should hang out. She called me & said that she wasn't suggesting we meet and get horny together but just to hang out.
She comes up to my apartment and then says how she didn't want to see me again because she thought I just wanted someone to fuck. What should I have said there? & Then she asked me why it is I wanted to see her again. Then said I liked how easy it was to talk to & be around, how open-minded and sweet she is. She then said she wasn't asking for compliments but wanted to know why I wanted to see her again. I said I just told her. This girl was a piece of work.
Then I asked her how her week was & if she missed me, jokingly. She then tries to flip it on me as being the one who misses her because I asked her so she could be the one to say that she misses me when in reality I feel that way.
Push comes to shove & we're making out again. Make my way down & she stops me. Says she's on her period. Told her I'm a man, the red fairy never bothered me. Shook her head & said no. I got turned off and got off of her. Then she was on her knees on my bed & I was choking her as she was sucking on my fingers. She was begging to kiss me but I didn't let her. She was like bouncing up & down on my bed it was weird. Got her to undress herself but then when she took her sweats off she didn't take off her underwear & shook her head.
Asks me to cuddle with her & I turned her down. Called it a night & walked her out. Fuck this bitch.