If that’s the case there are two points to address here:
Is it possible to get back on track and recover and how. Because sometimes it’s hard to pull right then and there due to logistics and you’ll have to follow up, what’s the best way and mindset to come from when such thing happens given time and effort has been put and it’s worth pursuing.
Does this behavior depend on the type of girl, like I’ve mentioned there are girls who are still dtf given that I’ve sexualized in the same way.
Nope it didn’t! But I’ve had cases where I’ve done the sexualization and it lead into sex. I mean it’s hard to figure what’s going in a girls mind when it happens.
It’s not an issue if I fucked her. But take for example it’s not possible to fuck, for logistics if she’s in another country, why’d it happen!
There are also cases where girls interest was still there even after sexualizing, I’m not saying it’s always the case.
No. I’ve had this happened in different cases.
A girl I’ve met when I was out and later called and sexualized and was very receptive, she even mentioned her bf and that she’s gonna breakup with him cause the Sex isn’t great. But the vibe changed and didn’t respond to my call/text the following days.
A girl next door, a hottie, whom I’ve had a lot of chemistry with and she suggested that we go for a walk. We talked and sexualized heavily and was very receptive but whenever I tried to make a move she was reluctant and resisted eventho I was going for two steps forward one step back thing. Again the following days went cold.
A girl from tinder in different county. Sexualized over phone and again same thing happened.
A girl I’ve met in a bar and within 10 mins we’re in the toilet fooling around. Later hit her up same shit.
These are girls in different scenarios, it’s happened many times so I’m seeing a pattern.
On a side note, I’m relatively experienced but I haven’t figured why this always happens and what to do about it.
Thanks guys for the reply. But I don’t think rushing into escalation is an issue for me. I always test the waters and proceed accordingly and the girls do enjoy it, even I purposely make them invest by asking me to go on and have them involved too.
I’ve noticed this happened many times, it’s like a pattern. What else could there be, is it something psychological in girls and what’s the best way to approach it. Do you guys think by being open about it and talk it out helps, like it shows emotional intelligence and creates more trust?