On Tuesday I sent her a text asking how her dog days of summer were going and whether Thursday or Friday still worked for her. Silence so far. I may reinitiate this upcoming week with something. I’ve a lot of baggage with same-day cancellations from hot girls hence my coldness. I think she was using me as a an emergency fallback guy in case her MVP alpha cancelled.
What pissed me off is the whole “I have to be home early” crap from a 32 year old. Get your own chaperone then.
I told her off already so I don’t have to bother her again.
I said that we weren’t on the same page and I was looking for something more adult than what we had. And that she can reach out to me if she decides on that route and if I’m still available.
Something in vein of "so what are we doing here" type of discussion? That's the only one that comes to mind.
Funny thing about the number. She’s not ready yet, whatever that means. She likes to reserve the right to get tired of the guy and unmatch him from Bumble with no hard feelings. Yet, she added me on LinkedIn this morning and been chatting about todays music festival with me over Bumble. Weird yea.
Not sure there is enough for a lay report attributed to skill.
Upon arriving to the bar I was already toasted from the music fest. Upbeat, talkative and still drunk. She arrived in very positive mood. Immediately gave me a compliment and I amped up sexual tension. As she sat down I was kino-ing her at every opportunity on a high note per Mystery method. I sustained seductive and playful eye contact with occasional shit-eating smile when appropriate. Every now and again I’d hover my face close to hers as if teasing, eventually landing a hot make out several times. After couple hours of drinking and talking we just went back to her place. From then on it was smooth sailing. Make out on the couch, picked her up (she’s 5’1”) and brought her to the bedroom where I unceremoniously took her clothes off and started fingering her until she was moaning for dick. Pretty straight forward. I seem to have made an impression so I’m looking forward to seeing her again.
In a dramatic turn of events I was able to get this girl on a date the other day and close the deal leading to a fuck marathon at her place.
In person, she wasn’t standoffish or difficult at all. She was positive, happy and even told me I look hotter in person.
Mind blown in other words.
Glad to report it worked out for the better.
Weather wasn’t cooperating so she came over and I closed the deal. Easy peasy.
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Sounds like you’re not ready for prime time and need a lot of experience and calibration. You’re obviously misreading the cues and maybe should practice outside of targets that are paid to be nice to the clientele. Don’t know what your social life is like but I’d look at that too. How many new people are you regularly meeting?