Failed LR- Need help analyzing what happened
Whats up guys. So this week I have been out of town visiting my family in the small town I grew up. About a week out, I changed my location to start getting matches in the area and setting up meetups. Now I’m staying with my parents and I am an hour away from Cleveland where most of these bitches party. My goal was to try and escalate while out and try to move it to their place. I match with this girl and she was really invested from the start. We started off texting but we ended up also snap chatting a lot. We would talk back and forth for like three days. My friends and I got a hotel in the city because I wanted to to clubbing and she and I agreed to meet up. So here’s how it went down. We get to the club and there is a line. She shows up by herself and joins us in line. Here, I go back and forth, I’m trying to banter and keep strong eye contact. She seemed receptive and started to feel comfortable. She showed up by herself, but she had a lot of friends that were already inside. While in the line, I was spreading good vibes, talking with her one on one, but also including her in conversations with my friends. She also was talking to my friends in the line too. I was also bantering with other cute girls in front of us and some other guys. I was trying to find any way to demonstrate high value. Now while talking, she mentioned that she got out of a 5 year relationship two years ago. Idk if this was a shit test, but she said she wasn’t really into white guys. I said I wasn’t really into white girls and that we were both breaking our stereotypes. We got into a conversation that I was different than all of the other white guys around. She said she had a thing for bald guys. She said that her ex was bald and white. I kind of playfully called her out because it was contradictory to what she said about not liking white guys. We finally get inside, she makes it a point to bring me to the table where her friends were at. I go around and introduce myself and crack jokes with her friends. One of her friends was even roasting me on my shirt in a playful way. I was going back and forth with her trying to include this girl and other friends in the conversation. Other guys were of course hitting on her and it didn’t phase me at all. She said “this happens a lot.” And I told her that I wasn’t phase and she responded well to that. I end up buying drinks for us and we dance for like an hour. Here is when I started physically escalating. About an hour in, she was texting a lot and told me that she was going to go. I kind of questioned her about it and asked her like “Are you not feeling it or what?” and she mentioned that she was going to see her boo and she brought up not being into white guys again. I then said like “you can go see your boo but I can give you the best sex of your life, etc” She started giving objections on like logistics, but I overcame them all. She then just proceeded to say it was nice meeting me and then left. Here’s where it gets confusing. Immediately after she left, she started messaging me on Snapchat(I wish I had screenshots). She started saying that “she was terrible” and kept saying “why would I leave?”. I even said like “if you’re not feelin it, you’re not feelin it. I’m just trying to have a good time.” She then replied saying that she was feeling it though. I was just really confused on the situation. Honestly, I’m just trying to figure out the logic behind this bitch. I’m trying to think where or how I fucked up. Idk if I escalated it too quickly or if I invested too much into her friends or what. Any input on this might help. Sorry I don’t have any screenshots.