Hey guys! New to PWF here. Was DM’ing this girl. Overall she has been low investment, but one morning she really invested into a convo. However, she kind of just stopped. Where did I go wrong?
Welcome to pwf man, you are definitely over dueing it as well as being to gamey. The vibe that this interaction gives off is of a lower value guy trying to win over a higher value girl. Thats not to say, that is the case for all I know you might have a higher smv than her. But thats the dynamic im reading. Your last text of "am i least keeping you entertained" accurately sums up the issue here. Your job is not to entertain the girl or be super exciting. Guys often confuse that as being the goal, but in reality your goal is to simply get her to meet up with favorable logitsics. When you gave her your number and say text. Thats literally all you had to say. There was no need to throw in all the extra stuff. It didnt help your cause, it actually hurt it. If you had just left it at text me, theres a good chance she would have.
I recommend going thru the text game chapters of the product carefully taking notes along with going thru a bunch of my lay reports for examples. Also check out my video on "the number one texting mistakes guys make" it goes over being over gamey which i think it would be very beneficial to you. Hope that helps man!
Yeah that makes a lot of sense. Definitely agree about the texting line. I noticed that she had “read” the message when I get her my number and didnt respond, so I got in my own head. I tend to do this a lot when they leave me on read. Any insight on this? Also, did I go for the close too quickly in this convo?
try this exercise before sending a text think to yourself would a high value guy who had 10 girls hitting him up, send texts like this, would Dan Brazillian send a text like this? Would Alex (myself) send this? Thats going to be your litnus test and for most of the messages here is unforunetley no. To answer your second question is no you didnt go to quickly to the last text.
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Welcome to pwf man, you are definitely over dueing it as well as being to gamey. The vibe that this interaction gives off is of a lower value guy trying to win over a higher value girl. Thats not to say, that is the case for all I know you might have a higher smv than her. But thats the dynamic im reading. Your last text of "am i least keeping you entertained" accurately sums up the issue here. Your job is not to entertain the girl or be super exciting. Guys often confuse that as being the goal, but in reality your goal is to simply get her to meet up with favorable logitsics. When you gave her your number and say text. Thats literally all you had to say. There was no need to throw in all the extra stuff. It didnt help your cause, it actually hurt it. If you had just left it at text me, theres a good chance she would have.
I recommend going thru the text game chapters of the product carefully taking notes along with going thru a bunch of my lay reports for examples. Also check out my video on "the number one texting mistakes guys make" it goes over being over gamey which i think it would be very beneficial to you. Hope that helps man!
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Yeah that makes a lot of sense. Definitely agree about the texting line. I noticed that she had “read” the message when I get her my number and didnt respond, so I got in my own head. I tend to do this a lot when they leave me on read. Any insight on this? Also, did I go for the close too quickly in this convo?
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try this exercise before sending a text think to yourself would a high value guy who had 10 girls hitting him up, send texts like this, would Dan Brazillian send a text like this? Would Alex (myself) send this? Thats going to be your litnus test and for most of the messages here is unforunetley no. To answer your second question is no you didnt go to quickly to the last text.