Low investment. Im “funny one”
Thoughts on how to go about it? I tend to always mess up with these hotties that aren’t biting easy.
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Thoughts on how to go about it? I tend to always mess up with these hotties that aren’t biting easy.
Had a tinder date at my place, spoiler- I didn't smash. Her body language was closed off the entire time. I felt I did everything I could with pushing and pulling the convo. Trying to tease her. Get her playful. Towards the end I threw this in the convo “oh and I owe you a massage for that long drive here ;)” she replies, “no I’m good thank you =)”. The way she said it felt like a hard rejection. I just felt if I got closer to her or touched her I would be coming on too strong as she didn’t look or feel very receptive. I was looking for any sign from her, any, to push but nothing. She just sat there with closed off body language the entire time. On other dates, it’s been so easy. I see the girl has good body language, and flirty vibes, so I can escalate easily. Idk what happened but the vibe on the date just sucked for me. She didn’t do what other girls do which is make strong eye contact, show interest in the convo, throw questions back at me, or even laugh or flirt much. Maybe it’s the age gap? I’m in my 30s she’s 23. It just sucks because she was probably the most attractive date I’ve had so far. And I just don’t understand why she was so difficult for me. And how do I deal with this is the worst part :/ Just can’t make sense of what happened. Just wish I knew why. Was it me? Her? What? She drove an hour to me lol so I really don’t get it. And this is after agreeing to cancel our boba tea date to meet straight at my place for drinks.
Recommend a place to visit for a week or 2. In the US as I’m not trying to deal with travel restrictions thanks to the c19. Whatever you got. Places with lots of potential hotties preferred :) I’m Paki, light yellow-brownish complexion, no clue what place would this be a plus in but want to avoid places where it would work against me at least lol
Fellas I'm pretty lost when it comes to wine. How to serve it, room temp or cold? What kind to buy, assuming the grocery store stuff is good to go? If anyone has a recommendation so I can just grab a specific one off the shelf, that would be great! My google-fu isn't going well on this topic and I keep seeing articles about the fancier, wine tasting, professional side of wine.
So this girl bit hard on the romantic date i have planned and wants to know about it, unless it’s a surprise because she loves surprises lol Thinking I need to get her to qualify first and try to gauge how freaky she can get before I tell her how the date will go. Good questions to ask her?