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Hey Alex, curious what you think about these photos. Tried using some of them (3, 5, 8) on Tinder, and only got 25 likes + 2 matches in 48 hours. So I'm curious what else to do. Photos: https://drive.google.com/drive/u/1/folders/13tFnkwGHCtAyN0QzWfYiO--TKSUHD6AG
Hey Alex, curious if you know anything about how to get girls with really high follower counts on IG? After dating a hot chick with 200k+ followers I met through a friend, I don't want to go back down to less hot girls, but I also know from talking to her that she doesn't respond to most of her DMs (unless they're also influencers, which i'm currently not). One approach I was thinking of was emailing them, something liek this: " Hey {name}, I dated another influencer in a sorority at {their college}, so I know that you don’t respond to most of your DMs I know this is random, but you popped up on my feed and you seemed cool so I wanted to get to know you better My IG is @{my IG}, hmu there if you wanna talk more :) " I know it's needy but if the DM odds are extremely low, this is probably much better likelihood and it's still non-zero. Lmk what your thoughts are.
Hey Alex, I decided to try IG game following your videos, but in them you said takeaways like "are you always this talkative" (which is what I would normally say) don't apply because they're too aggressive for the situation (unlike cold approach / dating apps). is the correct move to just re-open the convo? for example, by saying "how's your weekend going" / "how was your weekend". Context is that i saw her on my FYP, followed, dm'd, she followed back, i liked a few photos, then she responded. She's been watching the stories but hasn't opened the message (pretty sure she's seen it though).
Title says it all. Caught ureaplasma. it's pretty simple to deal with but they told me to tell the chicks. how do i break it to them? was thinking something like "hey just tested positive for ureaplasma (STI), you should get tested" tryna do it in a way that doesn't fuck me over because none of the girls explciitly knew i was seeing other people, and one of them has been kinda flakey recently so feel like this might fuck that over.
No clue what the hell to say here. Was thinking of just sending another nude. the first part I cut out was a photo of me fucking another girl and the second was a dick pic any thoughts?
follow-up from: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/smashed-ig-model-thru-social-circle-night-game-thoughts-on-getting-2nd context: you were right -- she just wanted to hook up. she came over, we had some wine, flirted, but she wanted to get really drunk so we finished the bottle then had a few vodka shots. i was completely plastered when we were hooking up, so my dick could barely get hard and it slipped out after she rode me for like a minute and she couldn't get it hard again. context is that the first time i could barely get hard too but i was able to smash her for like an hour. i fingered her / ate her out a few times and we hung out for another couple hours (went out for a walk to the ocean near me, chilled in my bed) before we slept. when we got into bed she asked me "do you cum?" and i answered about how i was extremely drunk and tired and on finasteride. then we talked a bit more and then slept. when i tried making plans that night i asked "do you wanna hang out again?" she said yes, then i asked "when are you free" and she said "text me i dont know my schedule yet" but she is on a gap year so not that busy but her mom is visiting so maybe not lying. in the morning she was colder than any other time she was drunk/sober and gave the same "text me" answer when i tried making plans. but she stayed while i made her breakfast instead of immediately bouncing, and could have also just wanted to leave early since she knew i was working that day. she also has lots of red flags though like she sued her ex-BF for $2M and won, and when i asked why she always needs to be drunk when we hook up she wouldn't tell me, so maybe it's for the best if it doesn't work out. the most brutal part is when i was smashing another fuckbuddy who's not as hot or cool on sunday, my dick was working fantastically and i came faster than i normally do because i was sober and not tired. it's just because she wanted to come over late af and get really drunk and i didn't wanna make her uncomfortable / be in a situation where she's really drunk and im fucking her basically sober. anyways, the ASK is: since it's a friend of friend and we had some prior rapport, i ideally don't want to triple/quadruple text this girl -- she knows im interested in hanging out with her again. so, this next text matters a bit more. normally i'd say "are you always this talkative ;)" or "if you're too nervous, id understand" but im thinking about saying something about the sex/my dick like "it will be much more fun if im sober and you slide a bit earlier", or send a picture i took of her while we were walking outside at night (it's by a famous monument in my city). what should i do from here?
Hey, basically I banged this hot chick that I met through a guy that I thought was dating her, but turns out she wasn't (she told me that when she came over). i saw her out at night on friday, said hi, chatted, then invited her to after party, she asked me to send addy, i sent, then in between her texting me about her getting in the uber and her telling me she wasn't down i saw her out and bantered with her again. she was not super receptive to teh flirting, nor did she recognize it as flirting (according to her), but she ended up inviting herself over. in between the we cant go back to her place she called me after like 15 mins of me not responding and then we talked about some logistics that bascially she could potentially be in my area that day so she'll lmk, and she asked when i had to be up / when i finished work and whether i wanted to drink wine again (which is what we did when she came over). when she came over she bascially just told me that she never had any romance with the mutual, we hooked up, and my dick had some trouble getting hard cuz it was late and i was drunk but evnetually it got hard and i banged her for like an hour and she seemed to be into it. then we hung out the morning after and i made her breakfast before i had to leave. she didn't wanna leave the house to get brunch together nor did she want to commit to a date in the moment. but since she called me she's prob down normally this is pretty easy. id just say "still good for dinner tonight?" at like noon, but i dont wanna be too needy since she's been kinda standoffish before until she decides last minute that she wants to do it without someone convincing her. any thoughts or am i overthinking?
Opened this girl in a 4set. Talked to her for like 10 mins and isolated + made out with her while setting up the date for the next day since I couldn't pull. When I set it up she gave some pushback around doing it near me but I decided to try anyways. Ideas on what to say? Normally I'd figure "I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type" in a couple days but I think she's jsut pissed about me not giving in so I should prob say something more genuine like "hey didn't mean to be disrespectful, just thought I could show you a better time in {my area} since I'm more familiar. i still genuinely want to meet you". Also for context, it's like a 10 minute uber between the two places so it's just a principle thing for her
Have been doing daygame since I was 17, and only started trying for instant dates recently since I'm a bit better now and an old advanced wing of mine back in Seattle used to do instant or near-instant dates all the time. The first one I ran went well and she responded to my first text, but when I was trying to set up a date in person she didn't give me a time and she didn't respond after I asked when she was free to meet up. I had an opportunity to do an instant date again yesterday with a sexy latina, but chose to set a date and get her number instead so I could keep gaming and because it seemed solid enough. Set a sexual frame, DHV'd, talked to her for a few minutes, and she seemed into it. However, she hasn't responded to my first text yet so I'm not sure if i-dating would have been the right move. Thought interaction was long enough but maybe not. Basically, there seems to be a sweet spot with how much time to invest into each good daygame interaction to make the number solid, but there's probably diminishing returns since it's harder to pull from daygame, and if you bounce too soon she won't be down. It's also hard for me to tell since it seems to be dependent on the girl. Like nightgame, that large amount of time spent on one girl (who might not convert) could be used to hit on other girls instead. Do you think it's worth doing instant dates, and if so when?