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Opened this girl in a 4set. Talked to her for like 10 mins and isolated + made out with her while setting up the date for the next day since I couldn't pull. When I set it up she gave some pushback around doing it near me but I decided to try anyways.
Ideas on what to say? Normally I'd figure "I genuinely didn't take you for the flakey type" in a couple days but I think she's jsut pissed about me not giving in so I should prob say something more genuine like "hey didn't mean to be disrespectful, just thought I could show you a better time in {my area} since I'm more familiar. i still genuinely want to meet you". Also for context, it's like a 10 minute uber between the two places so it's just a principle thing for her
That is weird... she must be a massive stickler. I think your 2nd to last text where you backtracked.. wasnt good. Better to hold frame instead of giving in.
At this point you can say "are you really that upset I suggested we meet at a different spot"
agreed this is weird. how long do you think i should wait to send the "are you that upset" text?
also, normally when they push back i give in and it's cool because they've already been clear they're not gonna budge. what would you have said instead of my second to last text?
just 48 hours is good.
And no, you dont want to give into shit all the time. sometimes it's better to hold frame. In response to her last message I would have said "damn, you really hate travel that much"
