Standard spot. What are your guys' responses to this?
Hey fellas, this spot comes up for me from time to time. I have yet to actually close one if my memory serves me correctly. What are your responses to this spot?
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Hey fellas, this spot comes up for me from time to time. I have yet to actually close one if my memory serves me correctly. What are your responses to this spot?
What's happening guys I have posted a pic from yesterday here, and I want to know what my current SMV is. On apps, I only swipe on girls im attracted to. At the end of the day, a lot of my matches still end up being below my standard (after I dive deeper into their profiles). I currently am looking for a partner. I want kids, and am being incredibly selective as to who I am expending energy with. I think I am good looking, but it seems the apps don't necessarily agree. Wheat waffles gave me a 4/10, but that focuses strictly on the face. With the effort I put into my physique and personal/professional/emotional development (even though that doesn't factor into SMV), I think I am much higher than a 4. The majority of my matches and dates are with girls who I would consider 6s. I will at times match with 7s and higher, but often I am struggling to get a ton of investment from these types. My pictures could use an update, but I want to see if you all think that it makes sense to hire a photographer now, or if I should continue to work on the physique and hire one later. I'm very open to the idea that online apps aren't going to work for me. I get matches on Feeld, because I am experienced and I believe that there is a bit more leeway on that app for attractiveness, if you can express your kinks well, and you know how to own that shit. I live in the Bay, and competition is up there. There's just a lot of men. Honest assessment and suggestions for improvements would be great. Thanks in advance boys!
I just received word that my account was removed from Hinge. I have ZERO idea why. I sent a well written appeal, describing that I have been respectful and honest to all my matches, but immediately received a response that my appeal was denied. They won't tell me why. One of my girls said that she received a message that I was suspected of "fraudulent activity". She sent me a screen cap of the message, warning her also to protect herself against financial fraud. I have no idea wtf this is, but it suuuuuucks. Had a few hotties in the pipe line. Anyone else dealt with this?
Hey fella's, what questions do you like to get conversations going? Alex has suggested "you from here originally?". I find that a bit of a dead end. Interested to hear about your guys' opening sequence
matched and opened her yesterday. We moved through the date close pretty quickly, but she hasn't responded to this. I have another girl who wants a date tomorrow night but this chick is a bigger priority. How would you gracefully nudge? Generally I wouldnt even touch this for a few days but it's time sensitive. I would use the "or not" text, but girls have called that out as being passive aggressive and I agree. Thoughts?
Hey fella's. Wanted to post an interaction I had this last week where I think I made some lazy mistakes. I had generally framed the date straight to my place, but never actually got compliance around that and just assumed it was closed. I get needy at one point, and I use the "if youre too nervous text..." twice. This is what it looks like when I'm on autopilot and am not giving game the focus it necessitates to execute well. At one point there is a phone call that goes well, built some trust and built some sexual tension, should be obvious where that happens in texts. Hope that you all can find a bit of value in seeing what went wrong. Also open to suggestions moving forward with this specific chick. Happy texting
Probably the hottest chick in my queue. I got cocky because the interaction was going really well, and I wanted to crystalize a dominant frame. We had been texting pretty rapidly. Last text was sent yesterday. Help me dig myself out
Hey fella's, wanted to share my results from a tinder restart and hear what you guys are experiencing. Got a photoshoot and restarted with new pics. I live in the Bay Area, which I personally think is a difficult spot for men, as the ratio sucks, and there are plenty of young tech millionaires to compete with (not bitching, but it is what it is). First day I got 50 likes, second day 20 likes. Every day since, it's been a slow drip of about 1-4 likes. I would also say that the quality of women (in attractiveness) has gone down in terms of pics I'm being shown. Obviously, I don't have a top 10-20% profile, but I would like to know how far off getting into that coveted class I am. Here's a snap shot of my profile. Does being bald automatically disqualify a dude from being in that top 10%? Thanks
Hey, this post is for anyone who has a firm grasp on when to use certain phrases like "always this talkative" "and the award for the best texter goes to..." "I didnt figure you for the flakey type", the skeleton meme, or anything else people are using to re engage a convo that for whatever reason isn't flowing. What are the contexts in which you are applying these specifically? I realized I'm sort of using these interchangeably without rhyme or reason. Alex, is there enough content here to actually make a video clarifying?
Her last message (this morning) means: "Good morning good lookin, I hope you have a beautiful week! Kisses". She flaked on our date yesterday and hasn't really fully committed to coming straight to my place, but is keen to split some wine. I realize now that I made a technical mistake in not getting her objection clarified yesterday when she flaked. Any suggestions?