Seems to me like she had hesitancy about this being a one night stand and your response about lets find out with drinks at my place and don't be shy have made her rethink meeting up with you.
I think this is likely a lost cause but I would wait a couple of days to see if she replies back but if she doesn't you can try one last hail mary.
Think about conversations you had and things she mentioned as liking or talked about frequently that may make sense. Otherwise another options is you can say that you ran into a mutual former co-worker and it made you think of her and ask her how she's doing.
Thank you for sharing your experience just don't be hard on yourself you learned a lot from the experience and it will only make when you meet an even more awesome girl go even better.
My recommendation is to come up with something that made you think of her ideally like an inside joke or something that you and her shared and then start the conversation with this made me think of you and how have you been?
I appreciate it boys but she unmatched me after the post, probably for the best as I need girls that are into the humor
Clean up a couple of strengths to be more emotions less logic something like the below. For the DJ one you'll want to have her ask you about it so you can DHV. Also would lead off with your height.
6'
Strengths
Been around the block 15+ Countries and Trilingual
My cooking skills will wreck your diet
Great addition to any party just add a DJ booth
Dominant
Good luck brother!
Your pics are not bad but they are all over the place from Party Vibe #3 to Outdoorsy #2 and #7 to family friendly #5. Also why are there two different dogs?
Ditch #4, #5, #6 it will be more what a young DTF type will look for as far as the party/adventurous vibe.
As for the Bio its a bit bland. Maybe change it to strengths and weaknesses. For strengths you can reword your line to "Been around the Block 15+ Countries and counting" and for Dominant you can say that you are 50 Shades Certified. Add other things that are playful like that. For weaknesses list the things you are looking for in a girl like Alex talks about "great ass and accents" or whatever it is for you so they qualify for you.
Hope this helps.
Would get rid of #2 and #6 and make the Guitar pic the main one
I feel you brother I just got out of a relationship 2 weeks ago and I took it pretty well but then she came to drop my things off and since then its been the same as you with feeling lost and thinking about it. Having gone though a number of tough break ups the feelings will come and go and lessen over time but the best remedy is to keep moving forward. Just think of all the more amazing girls that are out there. The next relationship will be even better not just because there's so many amazing girls but also because you've also gotten better and learned a lot in this relationship so you will find someone much better for you because of that. Hope this helps!