ah, so she broke rapport with the last message? And I thought we were vinbing lol, thank you!
ah, so she broke rapport with the last message? And I thought we were vinbing lol, thank you!
maybe, but I can still use this chat to learn. so what would be be a good reply?
Thank you guys, I really appreciate the help! The chat is in german unfortunately (I'm an italian living in germany), but I will try to post a translation. Yes, we had our first date last saturday and we banged. Cedrics advice helped me quite a bit to be honest. I just waited a bit and reengaged. We had a second date this saturday. It was quite nice. We drank wine, had a walk in the park and when we got back to my place I gave her a nice massage and we banged. She slept over and we banged more the next day. I primed for the next date this upcoming weekend and she agreed. Now what I am concerned about is her lack of investment in texting in between our dates. I think she is GF-Material but she is not chasing me, and this is what I usually rely on to get into a relationship with them. Like Sam said, not every girl is going to chase us, but in my limited experience, a girl will eventually start chasing you at some point, like texting a lot and sending lots of kiss and heart emojis, usually after sex. But she is really not. If take a look at the time stamps you can see that she takes a while to respond and I'm often the one reengaging the convo. Also, before the first date, I was texting with lots of sexual innuendos, now as you will see in the screenshots, I'm texting pretty normal, is this a problem? And how should I proceed after her last "text"?