I was drunk at the beach, wasn’t thinking clearly. I have had some time to think about it, so I’m only gonna say this once. I don’t feel comfortable calling you my girlfriend and saying we’re exclusive if you’re gonna on dates with other guys. Unless it’s cool if I go on dates with other girls, but that’s another conversation
Thank you, so the thing is I did accept the relationship, she’s supposed to be coming over tonight, I haven’t said anything since yesterday, was just gonna wait till she’s here in person and just be “I need to talk you about something..”
Then say ya kno, I was drunk and wasn’t thinking straight at the beach
“I’ve thought about what we talked about this weekend (dating, being exclusive) and I just don’t feel comfortable committing to an exclusive relationship talking bout you my gf I’m you bf and then you tell me you going to a concert with a “friend” I’m ngl Alex I got this girl very very invested/attracted/interested, but I would say always consider it may not be that high, this is thot behavior IMO.
The key is not sounding insecure, cuz originally I was like yeah that’s pretty weird guys can’t be friends with girls. They always want to fuck and she was like “we’re just work friends it’s not like that” anyways
Since I felt it didn’t go the way I wanted the first time, and it’s been eating at me I’m going to tell her that in person at my house tonight/tomorrow whenever she comes.
I don’t be feel comfortable labeling us as exclusive if you’re goin on date concert dates with other men idc if they’re just friends. How would you feel if I go to concerts with my girl friends from work?? Anyways lmk whatchu think
I replied “Yes” and no response
I would say "Can i be honest?" she'll say yes than say " I like how submissive you look."
What do you think
She responded with this lmao. How to respond? Bit of a shit tester.
I uploaded her response. How would you suggest I go about building investment here?
What do you suggest?