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When you move it towards prefix of the soft close, how do you reply back when she says , “Date? Alr bae, you wish”
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When you move it towards prefix of the soft close, how do you reply back when she says , “Date? Alr bae, you wish”
Was good y'all, I've noticed I started to make some progress with my textgame and so far it's been a smooth sail. I rarely request assistance from the forums, but I honestly need some advice here. The context is that this is a girl from Instagram, We vibed, got to know each other, built sexual tension and I'm now going for the close. I thought there were two redflags because she didn't want to give her number out and it was the fact she was overly suspicious (But I found out the reason for this, except for the why she won't share her number.) It starts off like: Her: So when is it then? Me: Soon. What's your schedule like Her: School then golf then homework mon-thurs I work on fridays after school and I work on saturdays what's your schedule like Me: Same thing here, I'm free around 4 on Friday and Thursday Her: Oh cool, alright So when? Me: Let's do thursday. Say 5? Her: mm I think I have a * on thursday how about friday you meet me at my work then we can talk Me: That's cool, where is this "Work" of yours Her: ** Me: Ah, 3 stars her: * Me: How about this, I'll make you a deal... Her: What's the deal Me: You come to * this time, and I'll come to you next time Her: Where is * I'm really bad at navigation And how do I know you won't kidnap me Me: Oh jeeze, I'm super laid back, just bring some pepper spray lol Her: U r kinda suspicious lmfaoo Me: Lol you're good, I gave up kidnapping for life Her: Huh that doesn't make sense! but you're still so suspicious lmfaoo Me: I'm curious, now why's that Her: you are just very rather odd.. Me: Is this about the way I text or.. Her: Kinda I think you are a very cool guy though (Thumbs up emoji at the end) Me: Honestly, I'm just a very upfront and direct type of guy. And plus, I'm even cooler to meet in person Her:I think you are low key weird but I'd like to get to know you! Me; Yea same. Shoot me your number for romance arrangement purposes. Her: Ayo. also lmk why you take an hour to respond to cause why do you open it then leave me on opened and then respond Me: Had to build up the suspense ;) Her: It is very suspenseful and rather suspicious.. Me: More like just a busy guy. I prioritize sports over everything nowadays. And is that really so suspicious now Her:mhmm yeah and how do i know that your pictures are some off the internet lmfaoo you honestly seem like a perfect guy that's why it's so suspicious Me: I know, I'm too good to be true 😏 But yeah, we can facetime for a couple minutes Her: Yes, we should there's just no way you're real me: That's better. Text me ** Her: Or we can call on instagram plus you're getting better at responding ;) Me: Of course babe, i'm just not really active on here much, l would just prefer to move this whole thing to text, it's way easier Her: 🤨 Me: If you're into that sorta thing Her: I'm not sure I'm comfortable sending my number yet Me: If you're too shy, I'd understand her: Nah, I'd feel like you'd take my number and track me down" What do I say here, I feel like I could if I wasn't so emotionally exhausted from using my all my energy to talk to this chick. @avilench .
So, this girl added me on Snapchat. I don't know her at all, So I open her and She gives me some shit for an opener that you wouldn't expect it from. How should I deal with this? Takeaways maybe?
Here are the screenshots, from start to finish. This is a hot lead because she added me and opened me as well. Towards the end of the interaction, her investment disappeared. I wondering if it was the question I asked, but I don't know. How would I recover from this? Anything helps
So, this girl was previously invested and I wanted to find out why it dropped off. Like this chick was writing college resumes and then she plays the low-investment card. There's alot of comfort built up and I want to turn this around towards the soft close again. How should I proceed?
@avilench Hey all, How would I turn this around? I typically always know what to say, but this one for some reason threw me a strange curve ball. I definitely want to change threads and get investment, but should I address it or just change gears first?
I send a text that Pissed her off and I need to recover. How should I go about this?
What do you guys think?
Do I pull back with her or do I change gears and get investment?