Comments by Mikkel Rev

Because my comment wasn't good enough

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Finally a reply from you Jake! Thanks. Yeah that 'On' reply will be good to use at some point.

Reason I said 'Do I sense hesitation' was because her text #8 and #10 made me think I was pushing it too quickly. I was interpreting it as a signal that the sexualization was progressing faster than she was familiar with. I thought that by asking about hesitation, I would hold the frame but use whatever response to determine whether she was good.

How are you reading her texts #8 and #10?

Here are my observations:

• You have a buyer's frame. Instead you want her to be the buyer, and not you. So something has happened before this dialogue which has put you in that frame
• The text game in these messages doesn’t have enough character. Mix regular conversation, logistics, flirting, humor, banter, nudge things forward. You would get her to come round
• She has mentioned your schedule several times now, so something caught her attention. Assuming the schedule is in your profile, it could signal that you were planning to be very practical with the girls that come your way. They can simply select their time slot.

My impression:
One interpretation of this, is that it’s just exactly like the girl is saying in the text. It makes it look as if you're superficial, unprincipled and needy. You might not be like that at all, but with her life experience, she had that impression in the moment.

I feel:

• If the schedule is in the profile, then replace it with an action photo of you
• The good news here is that she was investing in text so she is interested in you
• Here is the order I would do (1) Well I tried, (2) Love the enthusiasm, (3) Look if you aren't into this, just lmk and I can stop trying.

• The guitar picture isn't my recommendation because you are looking away from the camera. If you were (1) looking straight at the camera and (2) leaning forward it would be my top picture. In the smoking one you do this correctly which is one of the reasons I like it
• In Europe you could use the smoking picture in the dating apps to set the bad boy frame. I like to do that. It basically tells the girl that you are there for pussy and not to be her beta orbiter. If I was in India I would use it, but I am less familiar with culture in India and more familiar with culture in Europe.

Love the smoking picture.

The order I would do is:

• Pool picture,
• police,
• smoking
• As the fourth picture I would select the one where the sun-glasses are taken all the way off but still in your hands (i believe that is your picture number 4 also).
• As The fifth one is the dog picture from the side. Can you crop it closer by 30% so there is only one dog and yourself in the picture?

If you're doing any more pictures in the future, I would suggest more eye contact and less smiling. That would look good on your profile

Glad its going well. If it goes badly again, let us know and we will see what we can do. Where in the world are you writing from?

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I think your most usable pictures in this case is the police, and pool.

The guitar is close to usable but its beta because you are looking away (as if you are avoiding confrontation). Does the photographer have any guitar pics with strong eye contact?

The dog picture (the one with the dog from the side) would be ideal if we could see the dog turning face towards the camera. It's at 50% when we can't see the dog face. It would also have been even better if you had turned your face a little more towards the camera bcuz then we'd see your face one more time.

Love the shirt and hair.

(1) You set a beta frame by failing a shit test. An alpha would say as Žan suggested (2) you double texted too soon and you set a beta frame by agreeing with her instead of maintaning tension.

Wait 5 days and do a takeaway write: ‘Or not’