Am I navigating this post takeaway correctly?

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This is a continuation of this thread: https://forums.playingfire.com/posts/just-laughs

My schedule’s in the photos (each 8-10hr shifts, usually “work” from 6am-8pmish).

How’s:

“If you’re into that sort of thing”
“Love the enthusiasm”
“Well, I tried”

If she doesn’t respond. Felt like she was trying to use me for food last time if you see the comments of the thread above.

I’m 28 & she’s 34 asking me on the first & 2nd date how much I make, to which I replied “enough”.

ANY & ALL feedback is greatly appreciated!

Mikkel Rev

Here are my observations:

You have a buyer's frame. Instead you want her to be the buyer, and not you. So something has happened before this dialogue which has put you in that frame
The text game in these messages doesn’t have enough character. Mix regular conversation, logistics, flirting, humor, banter, nudge things forward. You would get her to come round
She has mentioned your schedule several times now, so something caught her attention. Assuming the schedule is in your profile, it could signal that you were planning to be very practical with the girls that come your way. They can simply select their time slot.

My impression:
One interpretation of this, is that it’s just exactly like the girl is saying in the text. It makes it look as if you're superficial, unprincipled and needy. You might not be like that at all, but with her life experience, she had that impression in the moment.

I feel:

If the schedule is in the profile, then replace it with an action photo of you
The good news here is that she was investing in text so she is interested in you
Here is the order I would do (1) Well I tried, (2) Love the enthusiasm, (3) Look if you aren't into this, just lmk and I can stop trying.

avilench .

Hmm. That's a bit of a red flag question from her. And the fact that you had to re-engage her 3 times before she even texted "I enjoyed hanging with you"