Thanks for the feedback, i'm new to this.. in hindsight indeed saying "i'm wondering what kind of date we should go on" very clearly puts us in we're going on a date frame. Didn't even realise it at the time.
Thanks for the feedback, i'm new to this.. in hindsight indeed saying "i'm wondering what kind of date we should go on" very clearly puts us in we're going on a date frame. Didn't even realise it at the time.
Slept on it and took option A:
A) Ask her to clarify what thoughts she thinks i have and then address the concern
EDIT:
Girl: Still i get the feeling you have only certain things in mind
Me: What kind of things exactly?
Girl: Ah you know very well what i mean
silence for couple of hours
Girl: Well a decent man would take girl out in a coffee shop on first date