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Alex, can you help me with ideas about where to go from here? I’m considering: Do you really wanna know? Just a vibe. Doms can tell. The tilt of your head and those fuck me eyes. She’s likely to respond with a nonresponse like “lol”. At which point I plan to use the “Give me the basics” line. What do you think? I want to get her to start typing paragraphs, but not sure how.
Girl is an IG model. She’s answering, but not giving me much. I’m considering: Surprising, I know. You think that’s funny? Don’t get too excited yet I want her to invest more, but not sure how.
These shit tests throw me off. Seems so rude, but I gotta play it cool. Ideas?
Had first date with a Tinder girl last Monday right before she left town for two weeks. She suggested a bar near her place, I met her right before it closed, and she invited me straight up to her place where we banged. Really weird how easy she made it - this girl is a sexy instagram model! Next day she left town for two weeks, and I’ve been trying not to let this grow cold. How to keep her warm, when we can’t meet up soon? Chat thread post-date is attached. Context: (1) she sent me a sexy pic right before our date, and (2) I’m a professor, and (3) Spanish is her first language.
I met a girl at a concert over a year ago, danced all night, was amazing. We exchanged numbers, and a few days later she invited me to a party, but I as out of town. Scheduled several dates when I came back, but she kept cancelling so I dropped her. Then a month ago, we randomly matched on Tinder. We both remembered each other, had a great video call, and then an amazing date where we had so much fun talking and joking over drinks. She told me over and over again how hot she thinks I am, and how thrilled she was to see me again. She didn’t hesitate when I invited her to smoke weed at my place. We came back, made out (even that was really hot) and then she insisted on not going further and then left. I called her a week later (too long, I know), and she’s been evasive ever since. Thought I was just playing it cool, but I think that week of silence took the wind out of her sails. Now she gives brief responses, and only to half my texts. In the attached texts, we talked on the phone after her prayer hands emoji, and she said she could maybe hang out Thursday or Friday. The next message is me reengaging her Wednesday to nail down details, but she hardly responds. I would have dropped her by now, but for Alex’s example of persistence. Not sure whether or how to persist.