Posts by Victor Carola
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So I wasn’t super attracted to this girl because she wasn’t really my type but she just threw it at me so I took it. Was the day after I got back from Miami in March and closed this hot blonde 2 days before I banged this girl in my city. Imma post all my lay reports even the ones where i was just starting and my text game was not the best. I feel I over think now and can’t get my text game simple anymore and it cost me some leads so I like to look at my old LRs to see what worked for me and my style.
So when a girl says “we’ll see” or “I’ll let you know”, Should you withdraw the offer and say “Oh ok I can see you got a lot going on, I’ll hit you up another time and well try to set something up then” Then not hit her up for 2 weeks to make her respect your time, also if she’s high interest she would probably hit you up anyway right? There’s a 50/50 your gonna lose her but it may save you time or make her respect you more.
Idk if you remember Alex I made a post about her in the public forum and you told me to relate and change the frame and I didn’t totally get what u meant but I think I get it now. Is there anyway I could get her back now after my sequence of text? Also she posted this picture on On her story yesterday saying “I wanna do this with somebody’s son, but y’all ugly” and a friend sent it to me. So she could of just told me all of this because she’s not interested anymore too maybe idk. I really would like to keep seeing her because she’s really hot and we already has sex and I really vibed with her and thought it could be more then just a hookup and she expressed she didn’t want just a hook up either. She also still follows me on insta and views all my stories. Like I don’t want to come off as needy or anything like that but I don’t wanna just give up on her because I really could see her ending up being my girl maybe.
Matched a few months ago but here’s the back story, So I used to go to school with her younger sister and kinda fooled around with her sister when I was like 14, but anyway I matched with her and I thought I didn’t do to bad considering the fact I only been really studying playing with fire free stuff for a couple months at this time. Alex or anybody let me know where I went wrong. PLZ LOOK AT TIME STAMPS, I thought I might of gave her to much time and instead of being persistent I might of been showing her low instrest in her eyes. ALSO, is there anyway I can try again with her and if so do I just text “yo sexy” ? Thanks,I’m really trying take my game to the next level after finally buying the course.
Basically this chick I used to go to school with and we matched on bumble and she was busy and I was busy and her friend died etc and we never got to meet because she said she started seeing someone, I never was needy but I was persistent. What’s the best way to reengage cause she sent me a booty pic and it’s crazy. “Yo sexy”?
So about a month ago I banged this hot Latina and ever since then she’s been super flakey. After we had sex I was super busy with work and couldn’t see her again until about 2 weeks later but she knew this the night we had sex. But I kept some contact in between while i was working. Anyway after I was done working I had a date scheduled for Thursday and she flaked last minute but gave me a genuinely real excuse I thought. Anyway Since I live with my parents and so does she I have to rent an Air bnb for fuck dates, so after she flaked I made a huge mistake in my opinion maybe you disagree and took her on a dinner date instead of just renting a air bnb and pushing for sex again. Since the dinner date she’s flaked 2 weeks in a row, last night being the second time but called me and said she had to see her friend who just went to the ER, last week was she was having bad cramps on her period. Last night I just acted understanding and said I’m sure you will make it up to me instead of calling her out in a non but hurt way wich may of been a mistake too idk. And I took the same understanding frame the week before when she said she was cramping on her period the Friday a day before the date. What are my options here should I not re engage for a week Or 2 and see if she hits me up or something else. Like idk if she’s lost interest or losing interest or if she’s genuinely having emergency’s. And if a girl does lose interest how can you regain it? Thanks
I’ve been watching some of alpha male strategies videos and he always says never validate a woman with compliments or something like a compliment. I’d understand not to over do it with the validation but AMS claims to never ever compliment women and you will be better off. I always thought a sexual compliment is a good way to advance in the interaction. Alex or anybody seen any of Alpha Male Strategies vids and if so what do you think about the no compliment rule or Alpha Male Strategies in general? Thanks.
