Helped hot Latina flaked again
19 Posts (+6), 55 Cmts (+1)
So about a month ago I banged this hot Latina and ever since then she’s been super flakey.
After we had sex I was super busy with work and couldn’t see her again until about 2 weeks later but she knew this the night we had sex.
But I kept some contact in between while i was working.
Anyway after I was done working I had a date scheduled for Thursday and she flaked last minute but gave me a genuinely real excuse I thought.
Anyway Since I live with my parents and so does she I have to rent an Air bnb for fuck dates, so after she flaked I made a huge mistake in my opinion maybe you disagree and took her on a dinner date instead of just renting a air bnb and pushing for sex again.
Since the dinner date she’s flaked 2 weeks in a row, last night being the second time but called me and said she had to see her friend who just went to the ER, last week was she was having bad cramps on her period.
Last night I just acted understanding and said I’m sure you will make it up to me instead of calling her out in a non but hurt way wich may of been a mistake too idk.
And I took the same understanding frame the week before when she said she was cramping on her period the Friday a day before the date.
What are my options here should I not re engage for a week Or 2 and see if she hits me up or something else.
Like idk if she’s lost interest or losing interest or if she’s genuinely having emergency’s.
And if a girl does lose interest how can you regain it?
Thanks
Stop hitting her up man. Girls get flakey after sex quite a bit; just focus on you and getting new girls and your situation will improve
19 Posts (+6), 55 Cmts (+1)
It’s not like I don’t have other girls in my rotation it’s just she’s one of the hotter ones and she’s a island Latina and there’s very few of those where I live so I definitely want to keep seeing her.
Also for me I actually kinda liked her cause she just a sweet girl and just what I like as far as looks go, but maybe she doesn’t feel that way about me.
one thing to remember... I learned this from John Anthony...whenever you bang a chick always try to get with her very soon after the 1st bang. Try to get 3 bangs with her then push her to just seeing her once a week because until you get the 3 bangs there really isnt anything established. Also, have her sleep over etc . Mistake I was making was banging a girl then waiting a week and hitting her up. much better to get another bang with her even the next day or so because you want to get the 3 bangs then move her to once a week.
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Hey man,
It sounds like her reasons might be genuine, the best thing to do imo is to show some validation/sympathy without going to deep... and keep the interaction going. If she flakes again then maybe leave it for a week or 2 and if she’s into you she will contact no doubt.
19 Posts (+6), 55 Cmts (+1)
Like I wanna keep her in my rotation but at this point she’s not respecting my time.
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You can call It out man. But it has to be done in the right time and right way. Post the screenshots of the convo and I’ll be able to give you a better idea
19 Posts (+6), 55 Cmts (+1)
The first one is right after we had sex I texted her, I can’t remember for sure if I called her in between those 6 days where I sent her a meme.
But I was working and basically not available because I own my business and it’s seasonal so I work pretty much all day and night for 2 weeks but she knew that as was gonna come see me during when we were open but they canceled it half way threw.
When I said yo u up I called her and we talked for a bit and I set up plans to see her that week.
3rd is me confirming the day of the date and her getting ready to flake same with 4.
End of 4th I called her in Saturday to set up a date, idk why I took her on a dinner date on Tuesday, big mistake Ik.
Logistics and she came to my house and picked me up.
8th I called her and had a date set up for Saturday on Tuesday and we talked for around 20 mins, I have to watch my self because sometimes I’ve spent way to much time on the phone with her talking, so I try to keep it under 15 min to 20 mins.
Anyway she flakes so I just say I hope u feel better mami, hmu when ur better.
So I wait 4 days and reengage and call her and talk for a a few mins and she how she is and if she’s feeling better etc and mention after she says she’s feeling better meeting on Saturday.
Also since neither of us have are own place since we are kinda young I have to get a HOTEL OR AIRBNB, these 2 particular dates were gonna be a hotel dates
Any way I call on Friday afternoon basically to confirm and let her know that I’m free and she agrees to the date on Saturday evening.
Forgot to mention I didn’t use a condom with her so I bought her a plan B just to be sure and she told me that it was messing with her cycle and she was still on her period but just bleeding Still and not having cramps.
I respond with I’m not scared of that, probably a fail to her concern about her being on her period.
Day of date she Opens me with are we sleeping there?
Right before I was confirm she says that lol
I respond
She text me later and ask if I reserved it
I try and call her cause I didn’t see her text and it was a like 20 mins later and I respond and then she text me her flake response, any way I call her back or she calls me and she told me her friend just went to the ER and I’m like damn is she ok and I try to be understanding,
I sensed panic in her voice but maybe she’s just a
Good actor lol
Idk man Ik it probably seems pretty bad just threw text but the phone calls go great, and actually got her to come straight over instead of meeting in public at first.
Thanks and sorry for the long response but I wanna keep this chick in my rotation.
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394 Posts (+1.3K), 15K Cmts (+5.3K)
At a certain point if she keeps flaking or rescheduling you gotta call it out. Make it seem like your time is valuable too
19 Posts (+6), 55 Cmts (+1)
Me and her mostly talk on the phone so I can post screen shots and give context on them on where we where at in the interaction.