I cant invite to my place because I live with my parents who are strict and one is high risk for COVID. I guess I just need to get an apartment cuz I have saved a lot of money to afford one but I would be scraping by/cutting into my savings a bit each month unless I can get a new job which obviously is not very likely for a while. Id still rather live like a bum on my own than stay with my parents tho since its really toxic here.
as far as texting her I guess I'll just wait like you said then try to ask her schedule and slip in the fact that I cant have people over cuz I havent told her that yet so maybe that would cue her to invite me. this is a girl I have known for a while idk if that makes any difference. I went to her place several years ago with the excuse of driving her home from a bar and she invited me in (nothing happened despite me staying til friggin 5 AM because I was and still am clueless when it comes to this stuff). so theres no stranger danger fear going on for her, I just wasnt sure how to propose that option again. my only other idea is bringing up the idea of a movie night and maybe go that route if that is a thing people do? like netflix and chill but basically dont say that in case its too sexual.