Hey man, thank you for responding.
I have gotten massive value from your YT channel.
Just out of curiosity, was it salvageable before I said that?
I'm asking because I feel like with sexting in general it either goes great or goes to shit so I tend to avoid it.
Well I got circumsized because I had a condition called phimosis lol.
So yeah bro, it's pretty difficult to fuck a girl with stiches and dry blood on ur dick.
No need to recover dude it was a decent text.
Give her at least 2 or 3 days to respond, if she doesn't you can reopen her. Alex has a bunch of examples on how to do this on his YT channel.
Finally, and this is key, remember that you can have perfect text game and be a 10/10 guy in every area and girls are still going to flake on you and reject you. That's just female nature.
Do your best, have fun and if she doesn't want you move on, there's plenty of fish in the sea.
I'm heavily into ink and I get opened just because of my tattoos from time to time, so it's definitely a good investment lol.
I do think you should only get them if you really like them. There's more than one way of picking up girls.
You're right. Thank you for sharing.
I felt like an asshole after I sent her that message, and while I was definitely uncalibrated, she acted as if I was some random creep when she had being the one pursuing me, comenting on my looks and asking me about my preferences in bed during our date.
If she really feels that bad about a guy she dated talking dirty to her over text, then she shouldn't let guys talk to her like that on social media just because there's a possibility of them giving her money on OF.
I know my worth and I know I'm not a creep. She was portraying herself as two completely different girls and I didn't know her that well, of course I was going to get confused.
She could have stopped me instead of sending me this "???", she could have told me she was not into sexting or that she wasn't that type of girl in real life, but instead she decided to play games.
Anyway, I'll be more careful about sexting in the future and I'll definitely let this one go.
In my experience it's best to match their rythm. If they take hours to respond then you should do the same. If they're responding fast then it might be a good time for you to start texting them more frequently and go for a soft close.
If they take days to respond you might not want to wait days to text back as they might be busy later on, however, you should at least wait a few hours.
Finally, I advise you to text multiple girls at the same time so you don't get attach to them responding to you or not.
You should be so busy working on yourself and texting multiple girls that you naturally forget to reply back to some of them.
Once you do this, some of them will even re-open you and texting gets easier.
Well if the girls don't find out then I guess it shouldn't do you any harm, however, I have found that lying and using tactics can certainly hurt your inner game.
I'm sure that there are interesting aspects of your life that you can use for the exact same purpose.
If you really feel like you're profile is not that good I would suggest that you continue using these photos until you are able to replace them with photos of your own lifestyle, but, you should definitely work on replacing them.
Also, if you're going to be doing this, pick activities that you actually like. If you're afraid of heights then don't use a picture of a guy skydiving.
Your profile should convey your personality so that you match with girls that have similar interests.
Haha prance around her VJ with middle school tactics, that's all I needed to hear.
Thanks man, you're right I need to stop "gaming" the girls. I have spent years of my life turning myself into a high value man and I know my worth.
Time to stop playing games and just be myself around women.
I guess tactics are good when you have no experience but after a while you just need to remember the fundamentals of what makes an attractive man and move on.
In the end, I'm just losing a hot girl, she's the one losing the rockstar.
Yeah, I found the rockstar frame to be really powerful, but it's hard to live up to it sometimes lol.
Either the girl gets dissapointed if you show any neediness at all because it doesn't match her expectations or she thinks you just want to fuck her once and leave forever.
I only dated a girl as hot as her once before so it's hard not to get attached and I never dated a girl with OF before so I also got insecure about that.
The most frustrating part is knowing that I only needed to act normal to get a second date with her but I messed it up by trying to "game" her.
I definitely need to work on my inner game. Lesson learned.
Ps: She doesn't know I payed for her OF.
Do you have highlights on your hair?
Anyway, I wear feather earrings and have long hair. No one thinks I'm gay though. I think you can wear feminine stuff and dye your hair if you want to but you do have to compensate with some masculine traits as well.
For example I have a lot of tattoos (including a sleeve) and I wear leather jackets so it's more acceptable because it's more of a rockstar/celebrity/peacock type of look.
I think your style should reflect your personality so I would find a way to make your style a bit more masculine rather than trying to look like someone else.
Just my opinnion though.