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For example if you get a notification that someone opened you first. Or they reply to your opener and a couple hours or days have passed from wheb you sent that first message. I'm having trouble getting a smooth convo to flow and it just feels like I'm killing any momentum the convo has.
In my experience it's best to match their rythm. If they take hours to respond then you should do the same. If they're responding fast then it might be a good time for you to start texting them more frequently and go for a soft close.
If they take days to respond you might not want to wait days to text back as they might be busy later on, however, you should at least wait a few hours.
Finally, I advise you to text multiple girls at the same time so you don't get attach to them responding to you or not.
You should be so busy working on yourself and texting multiple girls that you naturally forget to reply back to some of them.
Once you do this, some of them will even re-open you and texting gets easier.