Potentially interesting convo for stream.
Hey, So I'm 29 years old and live in Denmark. I've wanted to pop in on the last couple of streams to ask some questions about my current situation, but due to the timezone difference I'd have to know when to be there and specifically preplan it since it'd be the middle of the night for me. I think with the different people on the stream, obviously @avilench . and Kevin and Denton, I think there could be some interesting insights. My story in short: Mega bluepill till 19 years old, alot of resentment and detachment of emotion as I got into pickup from there and until 6-8 months ago as I got into PWF. Through cold approach over the years I had "okay" success, a random lay every couple months, not great, but alright. After getting into online game and PWF it took off, last month it's been like 4-5 dates a week and closing on almost all on either 1st or 2nd date and the majority being straight to my place. Now here's the issue. I've started to get a feeling of what I'm looking for and at my current point I don't even care about hookups anymore, I find it boring and honestly a waste of time if there's no emotional chemistry or the possibility of one. 2 weeks ago I matched with a chick on tinder, where the texting was incredibly natural, went on a date, it was great, went on a 2nd date only 2 days after and this is honestly the best and most amazing date I've ever been on and we both clearly felt it. For certain reasons I can elaborate on if interested, I made the massive mistake after her sleeping over, to extend the date throughout the next day. She agreed and it went to shit (Here I realized I was very quickly catching feelings). Attraction dropped faster than a beat at EDM. We were both hungover and running on 1 hour sleep, and I got super pushy. She ended it the day after and this is where it could get interesting. At this point, in such a short timespan I managed to get stronger feelings for her than girlfriends I've had for a year, and when she ended it I felt like I got shot and my first thought was "I'm gonna jump out the window". After breathing deeply for 10 sec, I gathered my thoughts and was like "why am I feeling this strong this early, it's absolutely insane". My conclusion is probably that gaming for so long without feelings made me extremely needy and everything jump out the moment I sensed real chemistry and it obviously scared her away. A week later, I'm going on my 4th date, 3rd hookup this weekend and every time it only makes it worse and I cried for the first time in 7 years... I'm guessing that this is what is likely to happen once you get to a certain point in game, but I don't really see you guys having stories like this where you get this intense need for emotion and suddenly stop caring about sex after you've had success for a while. I would love to hear the different coaches take on situations like this, and I bet a good amount of the people that followed you for a while and/or bought your product will run into this at some point. Could use some tips to getting out of this funk and I'm honestly a bit afraid of showing emotions again now after that happened since my reaction really scared me due to how illogical it was. Yet at the same time nothing seems to work, I work out, I hooked up with other chicks, meditate, all the standard things for actual breakups aint really getting me to the root of the problem. (I'm gonna try to be there for the streams to pop in for a chat, but if it sounds interesting it'd make it much easier for me if we could preplan when I should be there) If you wanna get in contact, my mail is mikethorupmadsen@live.dk Thanks for all your amazing content, it honestly changed my dating life and I'd say it increased my game by a factor 10-20!