The way I see it, your opener was too long, too much investment and too many compliments,
I sometimes do the compliment opener, but you only pick one thing, my most used ones atm are "Swiped right for cute smile ;-)" or insert "sexy tattoo" instead of the cute smile. Sometimes I also use "Those eyes.. I might be getting into trouble here ;-)"
So far those have around a 50% response rate and have so far only given positive responses I could easily transition. The important thing you have to note is, that these work for me because they are congruent to me. It's the same with the suggestions in the product. Those weren't congruent to me, so I had to tweak them while still remembering the core concepts in the blueprint.
- Long story short, you're forgetting the core concepts of the blueprint.
And for the last message. What's happening is, she getting you reactive to her. When she says "that feels sexist" I'd probably just double down on it for fun.
I think it's hard to salvage, but I'd say your options are currently to wait a couple days and then hit her with one of the memes or just completely start a new thread like "how's your sunday funday?" maybe with the gosling meme accompanying it. Or you could use a takeaway "always this talkative?", maybe even make a joke about the not reading thing she said. Just remember, it has to be congruent for you, so whichever of these you pick, you yourself have to mean it, feel it and actually think is funny to you.
Hope it helps!