Ive been seeing this girl for about 2 months now and on my tinder profile my age was 29 but im actually 36 so I was wondering how can I tell her the truth about it in a way she won't get upset? There will be a bigger age gap that I think she might be concerned about because she's only 22. Is there an ideal way to bring it up without it being such a big deal like "oh btw you know i didnt put my real age on tinder right?" and then just tell her?
I met a girl for the first time and we hung out for about 5 hours. I couldn't pull her back to my place because of bad logistics, but I made the moves. I met her at the mall, pulled her to my car and drove her and we chilled at a lookout, massaged her hand, then held hands, I was rubbing her legs, I kept saying how soft her legs are, then I grabbed her head and kissed her lips when I dropped her off at her house. She was compliant to everything and never gave me any bad signals by pulling away at anything.
My biggest mistake is I didn't invite myself up to her place. I dropped her off and left... but idk maybe I could've just said "can i come upstairs to your room and chill for a bit?". I was just nervous and I need some guidance.
When I got home I texted her "That was 🔥" and she responded "That was really fun". Now, I don't know what to do next.... Do I leave her on read so she can digest the date and wait a bit until her emotions fade before I initiate contact again to set up a 2nd date? What about the point of no return?
Do these type of girls fall into their own category now where she agrees to meet but “once covid is gone” which basically means never? What should I say next?
Thought I handled it when i said I was cautious about it and been socially distancing.
She ignored after I was in the middle of closing
Then 2 days later double text.
Should I just give her my number or what should I do next? Would trying to convince her that its not a big deal be too pushy?
So she was very responsive with me and I got her number and we were texting on iMessage. We even set up a date for Sunday. She asked for my IG because she wanted to see more pics of me and see that im not a catfish, but I don’t post selfies of me on IG so she asked me to send her a selfie on imessage. I sent her a selfie and she didn’t respond. As if she wasn’t satisfied with the way i look or something...
but we already exchanged IG’s and she accepted my request and now I saw more pics of her and also I see that she has a kid she never mentioned to me and is also a fatty so now, I don’t even really want to see her anymore.
But the problem is after I sent her my selfie on imessage, she ghosted me lol.
So I double texted her “Did I scare you haha” and no reply.
So what’s going on here? Do I just unfollow her on ig and act as if the date is off? Or send her a triple text calling off the date? It’s been 3 days since I sent her my pic and then a day later said “Did I scare you haha” and she never replied. What should I do now?
I had this a few times, but I'll setup the a date and the girl tries to pick the place. It's super annoying when it happens.
Does anyone have a go to reply or response to this
Since girls have to message first, what do you do if she opens but then already ghosts you from your first reply? What would you double text her this early in the interaction? For example, this girl opens me about my cooking skills and asks what I cook, was my response bad?
If it ever reaches this point and you feel you’ve tried to re-engaged enough times do you give up? She wouldn’t engage in conversation and avoided the craziest thing shes ever done. Then she just gave up I guess cause she ghosted lol. Should I send one last text or is it pretty much done because I tried to push the convo too far?
