Comments by Baurman J

Yeah definitely man thats why I was wondering what would you say would be the least bad way to tell her?

I was thinking just asking “do you know the year I was born in?” Or “btw what year were you born in?” And then say “Nope I was born in...” and then just change the subject and ask her another question and just act like its not even a big deal at all. I’m gonna do this in person, so it will be better. If she questions me about it further I’ll just say “we never asked each other about the year we were born, so thats why I asked now.” Or do you have a better suggestions or do you think this is fine?

I unmatched her after getting her number so that helps I guess. I just wish she asked me on the first date about the year and I would’ve told her but the fact we just never talked about it and its been so long is whats bothering me. It’s like she never asked, so I never told.

Yea I didn’t think it would be serious at first because I only saw her once and then we didn’t even hook up until a week later, now we keep meeting once a week and it seems like we could be in a relationship. That’s why I feel like I want to tell her the truth now, i just don’t know how to bring it up to her because she never brought it up to me.

She only asked me what my birthday was on the first date and I told her the month and day but never mentioned the year and she never asked me. I don’t think she would care about the age just more so about me being honest and not trying to lie about it so I just wanna tell her the truth before continuing on with her. Any suggestions on how to casually just mention it without making it seem like a big deal? Like just ask “Do you even know the year i was born in?” And then just tell her “Then just so you know I was born in xx” and then change the subject?

Why not just say "How's my favourite polish doing?"

Dont use snap.
tell them to give you their number. If all they want is snap then they are time wasters who are just trying to build their followers

Dont ever use that opener again to prevent being backed into a corner like this with a response like that. Just transition off the opener and start a new topic like “So are you from here originally”

You missed your opportunity to close
When she says im not on here often thats your cue to say “shoot me your number and lets plan our romantic date”

Good sex is when there’s good chemistry so the girl can fully relax and receive 10-15 screaming oral orgasms

How can i invite myself over to her place next? Because her place is so much better for logistics because im driving.

Is it weird if I suggest hanging out at her room in the morning and we go out after since she doesnt drive a car and i need to pick her up at her place anyways? she already said she cant hang in evenings so im trying to work with the schedule she gave me and i dont really want to continue being out in public with her until we have sex first.

“Can I come over Saturday morning and chill for a bit? Then we can go to xyz together after” - would this work?

Do you have any suggestions on what the 2nd date should be in my situation would it be weird if I asked to come over to her place?

I want to suggest to meet at her place or mine instead and see if she would be down for that