declined 2nd date but hitting me up again
quick background: -met her at the gym, exchanged numbers , set up date ->grabbed drinks after work a few days later (but probably a mistake on my end since I was still in work mode and kinda lacked my a-game) ->so date just ended up being a chill drinks date ->brief text exchange the days after, told her two days later that i had a great time and whether she was down to hang out again => her response: "had a great time as well, thank you for the evening but for me it wasnt enough for a second date". my reply: "all good sometimes it just doesnt match". Figured onto the next. -saw her again at the gym a few days later ; shot the shit for a lil bit then back to workout -she then texted me on friday outta the blue about whether i was at the gym and if it's crowded , kepts my replies short didnt really think about it. now i am just wondering, since it rarely or never happened that after a girl had said no to a second date, that she still hit me up after. any one ever had a similar experience - think it's worth keeping the conversation going or just let it fade away/make no effort in hitting her up from my end?