Comments by Julien Edel

yes of course, i dont plan on becoming a texting buddy. just as mentioned trying to see if one could turn such a situation around or just leave it be

yea could be. Oddly enough, ever since then we had a pretty active back and forth over text.
however, dont really know whether to ask for another meetup/date since she declined that after the first one.
if anyone else ever had a similar situation that turned around, feel free to give input

yea i replied pretty much something along those lines that day (however, i'll keep your version definitely in mind, i like it).
thanks for the suggestions bro, i'll hit her up after the weekend or so

I mean there were a couple of days between the date and my "had a good time" text, but I know what you mean

update: kept it cool just exchanged few texts here and there.

then asked her whether she was free this weekend,

her reply: "actually yes, but I'm currently not in the mood for sex🙈 "

not sure how to go from there, maybe some other fuckbuddy or ex-bf situation.

yea I think i got a bit overzealous trying to set up the second date, thanks i'll check out the video and refresh my mind

ye perhaps the inner neediness got the better of me there

thanks for your insight. duly noted.
oh well, can't get em all

I like your phrasing "it's ok...."

Feeler Text was just something basic along the lines of what cool things she's up to with some call back humor about her work

thanks for your input.
also, since i dont wanna make this one too specific to this one girl:
in general, when arranging second dates (and sex hasn't happened on the first one) and the chick is too vague over text and you got this feeling a second date probably wont happen, should one lean more towards the "calling out side"?