Girl from middle school
Hi guys, my name is Kamil, any its my first post in the PWF forums, and would love to get some feedback/guidelines. First of all, a little bit of my background. I'm 27yo, from poland. Im quite tall with decent looks, i wouldnt describe myself as handsome af, but i'm not ugly either. So last year in december, i broke up with my ex after almost 9years relationship. First 3 monts of this year was hard for me, then i span 180degree and started working hard af. Lately I've slowed down a bit, and started going out. This friday at midnight I was with my buddy on the gas station, getting some gasoline and some food, heading to smoke some pot on a mounain next by with awesome a view. On this gas station I met my old friend from middle school times. It's been about 11-12 years since we've seen last time. She was with 2 other friends and was looking stunning. We had some banter back and forth and after around 5mins they left, because their friend was freezing outside. So after that we drowe to the mountain, had smoked a joint, drowe a lil bit higher, and on a parking lot we noticed very similar car to the one girls had. It was so dark around tho and i'd feel creepy if I'd had come over to them to check if thats them or whatever. So 2 days passed and I decided to type to her via facebook. (She asked me before if i have fb/insta or whatever). At first i was quite nervous, but I came up with I'd rather try and fail, than not try and have a guilty conscience. I could paste the screenshots here, but i'd have to translate them anyways so I'd just write down the convo. Me: Hey x :) Her: Hello :) M: Is it possible that, after we've seen eachother on gas station, you've been on this mounain on parking lot? :> H: Yes, we've been there, very shortly tho. Why? :) M: Haha, we almost seen eachother for the secound time :D I've been there with my buddy aswell, he was convinced thats your car, i wasnt so sure H: Yes, we've seen you. Your buddy was right. M: So he did. I was thinking about comming over and checking if thats you or not, but it was very dark and i felt quite creepy, besides that i wasnt very pleased with my first impression after such long time :D H: You wasnt pleased? Hehehe (I kinda realised that i've misstyped and she understood that i wasnt pleased with her looks or so, so had to define it) M: Yea, I was tired after gym, not put together in my tracksuit. Not really attractive look :'D H: Hehe let me put it this way, I'm not looking for a pickup. It was just nice to see you after such long time :) I havent seen anyone from middle school for so long M: No one is talking about picking up here. It was very nice to met you after a few years,. I'm not gonna lie, your first impression on me was very positive, I'm happy that we've met so randomly. I ment that you were looking gorgeous, and had very good first impression on me, which I can't tell about myself. I'd wish myself a better one, thats all. No pressure ;) H: Hehe oj Kamil :), whats there left to say for me, thank you :) thats nice. You know, I was going out so I had to dress up :D and put make up on etc :D M: Thats right, you look very nice in shorter hair, definately a positive change! :) H: Really? Hehe because I'm planning to grow them more. But its good to know, that they don't look that bad :D M: Personally I prefer longer hair in women, but in your case I'm suprised how perfectly shorter hair can fit :) H: Hehehe thank you very much :) So we've talked on sunday night, I haven't talked to her today and wondering what should I do. She just straight up told me that she's not looking for pick ups, not sure how to understand it. Should I try to talk to her a little bit more and maybe get her out for coffee or beer? Or should I just give up as she gave me a sign that she's not interested? Isn't my text game cringy ? I havent been out in the streets for past 9 years, and feeling rusty to say the least. Aint I being too logical? Thinking back, instead of straight up denying that I'm trying to pick her up, instead maybe I could go with something like "Do you feel like I'm picking up on you :>" or "In which part do I try to pick up on you?" ? I feel like the first one might be a little bit too forward, but the second one seems more reasonable. What do you think? And overall any suggestions? I havent bought any products yet tbh, but i've watched almost whole library on the YT, read lots of love reports and overally I'm very opened to finally start going out and meeting new people. Thanks for any feedback, best Regards, Kamil.