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Hi guys, my name is Kamil, any its my first post in the PWF forums, and would love to get some feedback/guidelines.
First of all, a little bit of my background. I'm 27yo, from poland. Im quite tall with decent looks, i wouldnt describe myself as handsome af, but i'm not ugly either. So last year in december, i broke up with my ex after almost 9years relationship. First 3 monts of this year was hard for me, then i span 180degree and started working hard af. Lately I've slowed down a bit, and started going out.
This friday at midnight I was with my buddy on the gas station, getting some gasoline and some food, heading to smoke some pot on a mounain next by with awesome a view. On this gas station I met my old friend from middle school times. It's been about 11-12 years since we've seen last time. She was with 2 other friends and was looking stunning. We had some banter back and forth and after around 5mins they left, because their friend was freezing outside. So after that we drowe to the mountain, had smoked a joint, drowe a lil bit higher, and on a parking lot we noticed very similar car to the one girls had. It was so dark around tho and i'd feel creepy if I'd had come over to them to check if thats them or whatever.
So 2 days passed and I decided to type to her via facebook. (She asked me before if i have fb/insta or whatever). At first i was quite nervous, but I came up with I'd rather try and fail, than not try and have a guilty conscience. I could paste the screenshots here, but i'd have to translate them anyways so I'd just write down the convo.
Me: Hey x :)
Her: Hello :)
M: Is it possible that, after we've seen eachother on gas station, you've been on this mounain on parking lot? :>
H: Yes, we've been there, very shortly tho. Why? :)
M: Haha, we almost seen eachother for the secound time :D
So we've talked on sunday night, I haven't talked to her today and wondering what should I do.
She just straight up told me that she's not looking for pick ups, not sure how to understand it. Should I try to talk to her a little bit more and maybe get her out for coffee or beer? Or should I just give up as she gave me a sign that she's not interested?
Isn't my text game cringy ? I havent been out in the streets for past 9 years, and feeling rusty to say the least.
Aint I being too logical? Thinking back, instead of straight up denying that I'm trying to pick her up, instead maybe I could go with something like "Do you feel like I'm picking up on you :>" or "In which part do I try to pick up on you?" ? I feel like the first one might be a little bit too forward, but the second one seems more reasonable. What do you think?
And overall any suggestions?
I havent bought any products yet tbh, but i've watched almost whole library on the YT, read lots of love reports and overally I'm very opened to finally start going out and meeting new people.
Thanks for any feedback,
best Regards,
Kamil.
Welcome to PWF man. Yes, your text game is very cringy and that's because you're putting her on a humungeous pedestal. Every text is you telling her how perfect she is and how you're so much beneath her. Even though you don't say that directly, that's the underlying vibe her. Never ever apologize for anything about yourself. Especially if it's "not looking your best"
Also, you're misinterpreting what she's saying. She's not rejecting you, she's just trying to make you feel better about yourself. Moving forward, completely stop giving her compliments. Also, stop apologizing or saying you wished for this or that. Text her like you would text a fat chick that is beneath you and your text game will be alot better. Don't say anything about picking her up, it's only going to work against you. Instead, do some callback humor/references from middle school. That is going to be your "in" Then once you get the conversation going again & crack some jokes, and no longer putting her on a pedestal, then invite her out for some drinks.
Also, I definitely recommend the PWF product. Especially the text game component for you.
Awesome man, really apperciate your time and the fact you responded. I feel like Im a 'nice guy' type and I can say that doesnt go very well for dating purposes.
I'm defenitaly considering purchusing your products aswell, big fan of your youtube work. Keep it up man, amazing work :fire:
Thanks man, you definitely should :)
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No answer. She's a bit younger than me and her profile says "Not on here much. Downloaded this as a joke 😬"
How do I follow up?