Give me the basics pivot
I've been using the basics line and having trouble on what to do next after. If she ask I'll respond. But in cases where she doesn't flip it back on me, what do I do
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I've been using the basics line and having trouble on what to do next after. If she ask I'll respond. But in cases where she doesn't flip it back on me, what do I do
So talking to this girl since Sunday. Every time I try to going at a date or something she side steps. I trying to figure out how to build more comfort through text.
Went on a date with this girl from hinge. Cool person, but definitely not as cute as her pictures. And ideas on how to cut this one off? I was thinking just "hey, wanted to say I had a good time yesterday, but I don't feel this going anywhere."
Hey, so started talking to this chick I matched with on feeld. Progressed to the point of talking about kinks. She is significantly more experienced than I am i. So I'm trying to figure out how I should approach this. I havent done any of the stuff she mentioned. But I'm open to learn and explore.
So used my go too opener "can I be honest" and followed it up by describing my type to her. She liked everything bedsides the body type. Any idea on how to save this? I was thinking "Damn, I was hoping you would turn out to be a 300 pound albino woman." Or " Whew, would of been bad news for us if you didn't have the booty part." And then follow up with "Are you from here? Thoughts on this?
Trying this opener out. "So I should hold off on buying the dog then?" "True. So give me the basics...." Or suggestion?
Probably over thinking this, but should I do, Normal bantering "do you have any felonies, kids, kinks, etc" "sounds like we're going to have alot of fun on our date then."
Conversation was good and then ended on a weird note. Tried to sexualize and then fell flat on my face. I liked her last message and decided to let it cool. Reopening tomorrow. I'm assuming I'll have to do a majority of the escalation during the date. So I'm trying to figure out how to re open and engage after the interaction went south. We have a date planned for Wednesday.
Pornhub/Onlyfans chick I'm trying to get at. Matched me on Facebook . She gave me hey number. Went cold after I asked if she was allergic to coconut oil. Reopened today with the bite line and got the Lol. Pushed with trying to seed the date. Think I went too sexual too quick in the reopen? Trying to figure out how to salvage this.
Nitin helped me get out of the typical convo and on track to make it sexual. But how do I answer this? We've been vibing a bit, tried to go for the date, she ignored it.