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Hey, so started talking to this chick I matched with on feeld. Progressed to the point of talking about kinks. She is significantly more experienced than I am i. So I'm trying to figure out how I should approach this. I havent done any of the stuff she mentioned. But I'm open to learn and explore.
your general approach should be of someone who is into kinky shit, and open to exploring more. You don't need to lie per say but dont need to tell her that your inexperience. My chicks on apps like this want a man with experience. Shes also very likely a sub so keep your texting masculine and assertive. I would go with "i like your list, a lot of fun things for us to explore" then DT "i enjoy (list stuff that you are into)"
Gotcha. I ended up texting this to her before I got your message. Kinda let the cat out of the bag, but said I haven't had alot if chances to explore. And asked her about the kink I didn't know about. Thoughts on this text?
"😂 No prison time gladly.
I've only played with orgasm control and biting. Haven't had alot of chances to really explore more. What's shabari all about?
No kids. Working on a tattoo idea. Dancing and djing before the pandemic. But now YouTube, docuseries, playing games and smoking are my main hobbies right now."
Here's her response
"i'm a shy virgin, show me the way"
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